"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Northern Vs. Southern California

Marcopolo

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I have heard time and again that there are so many more good looking single women in southern California and the ratios are much more in a guys favor there than in northern Califronia. Is this really true or is it a bunch of B.S.?. I live in northern California now and some places may not be that great, but at least superficially San Francisco seems to have a lot of cute women in the 18-35 year old range. I ahve never lived in L.A. so I don't know if that area is so much better than even S.F. Any thoughts? Experiences?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Derek Flint

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SoCal had a lot of "model/actress" types, but they are more high-maintanence, gold-digger types.

San Francisco is OK, but it is best during tourist season, which runs between now and mid-October.

That's when you get women from not just all over the country, but all over the world visiting SF

The parade of Swedish, German, French, Czech, Hungarian, Russian, Croatian etc...women during those months is a sight to behold.
 

realmz1

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I was raise dn grew up in San Deigo and I fly to LA every few months for business...and I will have to say the hotterst chicks are definately so cal...san diego is a nice hotspot..and LA isn't too shabby....plenty of hookups for me in the alhambra,la puente, and city of industry areas...
 
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