When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Whether overseas or at home, you just don't seem like the kind of person that anyone would want to spend time with.gspshields2 said:We can't really dispute the fact that girls overseas are a lot easier to impress than here.
Why go the hard route of staying in North America?
Thats like saying I want a challenge, the hardest challenge I can get, or do I want the easy route? Most people avoid difficulty and look for easy way.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Mantis Toboggan said:Whether overseas or at home, you just don't seem like the kind of person that anyone would want to spend time with.
If I were Naughty Ninja, who dedicated serious time to helping you out, I'd request to get your whiney azz banned.
Look at threads you've created in your time here: Nothing but whiney, crybaby, trollishness
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search.php?searchid=1716670
gspshields2 said:Why get banned? Im not a being a troll.
I asked for advice,
I followed it and I am posting the follow up reports,
so far, it's not working out for me.
Is that reason to ban me?
gspshields2 said:We can't really dispute the fact that girls overseas are a lot easier to impress than here.
Why go the hard route of staying in North America?
Thats like saying I want a challenge, the hardest challenge I can get, or do I want the easy route? Most people avoid difficulty and look for easy way.
Mantis Toboggan said:Whether overseas or at home, you just don't seem like the kind of person that anyone would want to spend time with.
If I were Naughty Ninja, who dedicated serious time to helping you out, I'd request to get your whiney azz banned.
Look at threads you've created in your time here: Nothing but whiney, crybaby, trollishness
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search.php?searchid=1716670
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.