Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Whether overseas or at home, you just don't seem like the kind of person that anyone would want to spend time with.gspshields2 said:We can't really dispute the fact that girls overseas are a lot easier to impress than here.
Why go the hard route of staying in North America?
Thats like saying I want a challenge, the hardest challenge I can get, or do I want the easy route? Most people avoid difficulty and look for easy way.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Mantis Toboggan said:Whether overseas or at home, you just don't seem like the kind of person that anyone would want to spend time with.
If I were Naughty Ninja, who dedicated serious time to helping you out, I'd request to get your whiney azz banned.
Look at threads you've created in your time here: Nothing but whiney, crybaby, trollishness
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search.php?searchid=1716670
gspshields2 said:Why get banned? Im not a being a troll.
I asked for advice,
I followed it and I am posting the follow up reports,
so far, it's not working out for me.
Is that reason to ban me?
gspshields2 said:We can't really dispute the fact that girls overseas are a lot easier to impress than here.
Why go the hard route of staying in North America?
Thats like saying I want a challenge, the hardest challenge I can get, or do I want the easy route? Most people avoid difficulty and look for easy way.
Mantis Toboggan said:Whether overseas or at home, you just don't seem like the kind of person that anyone would want to spend time with.
If I were Naughty Ninja, who dedicated serious time to helping you out, I'd request to get your whiney azz banned.
Look at threads you've created in your time here: Nothing but whiney, crybaby, trollishness
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search.php?searchid=1716670
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.