Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Whether overseas or at home, you just don't seem like the kind of person that anyone would want to spend time with.gspshields2 said:We can't really dispute the fact that girls overseas are a lot easier to impress than here.
Why go the hard route of staying in North America?
Thats like saying I want a challenge, the hardest challenge I can get, or do I want the easy route? Most people avoid difficulty and look for easy way.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Mantis Toboggan said:Whether overseas or at home, you just don't seem like the kind of person that anyone would want to spend time with.
If I were Naughty Ninja, who dedicated serious time to helping you out, I'd request to get your whiney azz banned.
Look at threads you've created in your time here: Nothing but whiney, crybaby, trollishness
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search.php?searchid=1716670
gspshields2 said:Why get banned? Im not a being a troll.
I asked for advice,
I followed it and I am posting the follow up reports,
so far, it's not working out for me.
Is that reason to ban me?
gspshields2 said:We can't really dispute the fact that girls overseas are a lot easier to impress than here.
Why go the hard route of staying in North America?
Thats like saying I want a challenge, the hardest challenge I can get, or do I want the easy route? Most people avoid difficulty and look for easy way.
Mantis Toboggan said:Whether overseas or at home, you just don't seem like the kind of person that anyone would want to spend time with.
If I were Naughty Ninja, who dedicated serious time to helping you out, I'd request to get your whiney azz banned.
Look at threads you've created in your time here: Nothing but whiney, crybaby, trollishness
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search.php?searchid=1716670
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.