She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Whether overseas or at home, you just don't seem like the kind of person that anyone would want to spend time with.gspshields2 said:We can't really dispute the fact that girls overseas are a lot easier to impress than here.
Why go the hard route of staying in North America?
Thats like saying I want a challenge, the hardest challenge I can get, or do I want the easy route? Most people avoid difficulty and look for easy way.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Mantis Toboggan said:Whether overseas or at home, you just don't seem like the kind of person that anyone would want to spend time with.
If I were Naughty Ninja, who dedicated serious time to helping you out, I'd request to get your whiney azz banned.
Look at threads you've created in your time here: Nothing but whiney, crybaby, trollishness
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search.php?searchid=1716670
gspshields2 said:Why get banned? Im not a being a troll.
I asked for advice,
I followed it and I am posting the follow up reports,
so far, it's not working out for me.
Is that reason to ban me?
gspshields2 said:We can't really dispute the fact that girls overseas are a lot easier to impress than here.
Why go the hard route of staying in North America?
Thats like saying I want a challenge, the hardest challenge I can get, or do I want the easy route? Most people avoid difficulty and look for easy way.
Mantis Toboggan said:Whether overseas or at home, you just don't seem like the kind of person that anyone would want to spend time with.
If I were Naughty Ninja, who dedicated serious time to helping you out, I'd request to get your whiney azz banned.
Look at threads you've created in your time here: Nothing but whiney, crybaby, trollishness
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search.php?searchid=1716670
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.