narcissist
Master Don Juan
day 7. first week done
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
NoFap September 2017
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
day 8
Michael Corleone.
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Day 7
resilient
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What's up DJs?
I made it to day25 before a reset (w/o porn). Almost 30 days, homies.
At least five good things from this month experiment:
1) I didn't look at any porn - zip, zilch, nada
2) I was more visible, active, and social
3) I got a few #s and social media contacts (w/o approaching heavily...)
4) I felt more relaxed, comfortable and confident in my own skin (fewer nerves, approach anxiety)
5) Experienced IDGAF vibe more often
For me, I'm getting closer to achieving the goal I envisioned for NoFap all along these past few months: quit porn. I haven't looked at it as heavily when I was a teenager in recent years, yet it has still been my crutch when I felt low or lonely.
Last year as I mentioned in my OP, I was successful at giving up porn and acquiring a fwb for a while.
I want to quit porn forever, so I can objectively look at potential relationships from a healthier perspective.
I made it to day25 before a reset (w/o porn). Almost 30 days, homies.
At least five good things from this month experiment:
1) I didn't look at any porn - zip, zilch, nada
2) I was more visible, active, and social
3) I got a few #s and social media contacts (w/o approaching heavily...)
4) I felt more relaxed, comfortable and confident in my own skin (fewer nerves, approach anxiety)
5) Experienced IDGAF vibe more often
For me, I'm getting closer to achieving the goal I envisioned for NoFap all along these past few months: quit porn. I haven't looked at it as heavily when I was a teenager in recent years, yet it has still been my crutch when I felt low or lonely.
Last year as I mentioned in my OP, I was successful at giving up porn and acquiring a fwb for a while.
I want to quit porn forever, so I can objectively look at potential relationships from a healthier perspective.
PeasantPlayer
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If I go no fap I'll nut in 10 seconds
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
Day 2, i'm 100% in.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Been EXTREMELY sick for the past 8 days.
In and out of hospital getting intravenous antibiotics.
no energy to fap at all.
DAY 15.
In and out of hospital getting intravenous antibiotics.
no energy to fap at all.
DAY 15.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
day 16
narcissist
Master Don Juan
day 18
almost gave in today.
almost gave in today.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
resilient
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day5
Looks like a new month, djs.
I had and interesting body language/signals experience after church today.
I spotted a girl I met recently a few weeks back. I waved her over. Met her in the middle. Her body language was antsy/nervous, she swayed side to side, had difficulty keeping eye contact with me and looked to the left when talking.
I turned my body parallel to hers so she would feel less nervous. I tried to keep the convo short because I wanted to get home for lunch. She told me to wait as she noticed I was thinking of leaving.
Anyway, got the # close and set up a date for later this week. She asked what I was doing later today and I said I might hit some place up and she invited me to an event later this month. Cool.
While I was talking to her, an attractive woman in a dress with her husband who was carrying their new baby walked past me. The woman totally eye balled me hard in a sustained look as she passed. That rarely happens. I wonder if she eyeballed me because I was talking to this girl in set. If the girl I was talking to wasn't there, would she still have checked me out?
Interesting stuff
NoFap rocks. I probably would been nervous too if I was fapping. Lmao.
Looks like a new month, djs.
I had and interesting body language/signals experience after church today.
I spotted a girl I met recently a few weeks back. I waved her over. Met her in the middle. Her body language was antsy/nervous, she swayed side to side, had difficulty keeping eye contact with me and looked to the left when talking.
I turned my body parallel to hers so she would feel less nervous. I tried to keep the convo short because I wanted to get home for lunch. She told me to wait as she noticed I was thinking of leaving.
Anyway, got the # close and set up a date for later this week. She asked what I was doing later today and I said I might hit some place up and she invited me to an event later this month. Cool.
While I was talking to her, an attractive woman in a dress with her husband who was carrying their new baby walked past me. The woman totally eye balled me hard in a sustained look as she passed. That rarely happens. I wonder if she eyeballed me because I was talking to this girl in set. If the girl I was talking to wasn't there, would she still have checked me out?
Interesting stuff
NoFap rocks. I probably would been nervous too if I was fapping. Lmao.
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ChristopherColumbus
Master Don Juan
Hitting on girls at church? No wonder that woman 'eye-balled' you.
MatureDJ
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And your body did use your slumber to clean the pipes in that period of time?
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
DAY 6 Going to plate tonight to fvck her hard.
So suave bros before hoes.
So suave bros before hoes.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.