narcissist
Master Don Juan
day 7. first week done
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
NoFap September 2017
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
narcissist
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Michael Corleone.
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resilient
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What's up DJs?
I made it to day25 before a reset (w/o porn). Almost 30 days, homies.
At least five good things from this month experiment:
1) I didn't look at any porn - zip, zilch, nada
2) I was more visible, active, and social
3) I got a few #s and social media contacts (w/o approaching heavily...)
4) I felt more relaxed, comfortable and confident in my own skin (fewer nerves, approach anxiety)
5) Experienced IDGAF vibe more often
For me, I'm getting closer to achieving the goal I envisioned for NoFap all along these past few months: quit porn. I haven't looked at it as heavily when I was a teenager in recent years, yet it has still been my crutch when I felt low or lonely.
Last year as I mentioned in my OP, I was successful at giving up porn and acquiring a fwb for a while.
I want to quit porn forever, so I can objectively look at potential relationships from a healthier perspective.
I made it to day25 before a reset (w/o porn). Almost 30 days, homies.
At least five good things from this month experiment:
1) I didn't look at any porn - zip, zilch, nada
2) I was more visible, active, and social
3) I got a few #s and social media contacts (w/o approaching heavily...)
4) I felt more relaxed, comfortable and confident in my own skin (fewer nerves, approach anxiety)
5) Experienced IDGAF vibe more often
For me, I'm getting closer to achieving the goal I envisioned for NoFap all along these past few months: quit porn. I haven't looked at it as heavily when I was a teenager in recent years, yet it has still been my crutch when I felt low or lonely.
Last year as I mentioned in my OP, I was successful at giving up porn and acquiring a fwb for a while.
I want to quit porn forever, so I can objectively look at potential relationships from a healthier perspective.
PeasantPlayer
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If I go no fap I'll nut in 10 seconds
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
Day 2, i'm 100% in.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Been EXTREMELY sick for the past 8 days.
In and out of hospital getting intravenous antibiotics.
no energy to fap at all.
DAY 15.
In and out of hospital getting intravenous antibiotics.
no energy to fap at all.
DAY 15.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
day 16
narcissist
Master Don Juan
day 18
almost gave in today.
almost gave in today.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
resilient
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day5
Looks like a new month, djs.
I had and interesting body language/signals experience after church today.
I spotted a girl I met recently a few weeks back. I waved her over. Met her in the middle. Her body language was antsy/nervous, she swayed side to side, had difficulty keeping eye contact with me and looked to the left when talking.
I turned my body parallel to hers so she would feel less nervous. I tried to keep the convo short because I wanted to get home for lunch. She told me to wait as she noticed I was thinking of leaving.
Anyway, got the # close and set up a date for later this week. She asked what I was doing later today and I said I might hit some place up and she invited me to an event later this month. Cool.
While I was talking to her, an attractive woman in a dress with her husband who was carrying their new baby walked past me. The woman totally eye balled me hard in a sustained look as she passed. That rarely happens. I wonder if she eyeballed me because I was talking to this girl in set. If the girl I was talking to wasn't there, would she still have checked me out?
Interesting stuff
NoFap rocks. I probably would been nervous too if I was fapping. Lmao.
Looks like a new month, djs.
I had and interesting body language/signals experience after church today.
I spotted a girl I met recently a few weeks back. I waved her over. Met her in the middle. Her body language was antsy/nervous, she swayed side to side, had difficulty keeping eye contact with me and looked to the left when talking.
I turned my body parallel to hers so she would feel less nervous. I tried to keep the convo short because I wanted to get home for lunch. She told me to wait as she noticed I was thinking of leaving.
Anyway, got the # close and set up a date for later this week. She asked what I was doing later today and I said I might hit some place up and she invited me to an event later this month. Cool.
While I was talking to her, an attractive woman in a dress with her husband who was carrying their new baby walked past me. The woman totally eye balled me hard in a sustained look as she passed. That rarely happens. I wonder if she eyeballed me because I was talking to this girl in set. If the girl I was talking to wasn't there, would she still have checked me out?
Interesting stuff
NoFap rocks. I probably would been nervous too if I was fapping. Lmao.
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ChristopherColumbus
Master Don Juan
Hitting on girls at church? No wonder that woman 'eye-balled' you.
MatureDJ
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And your body did use your slumber to clean the pipes in that period of time?
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
DAY 6 Going to plate tonight to fvck her hard.
So suave bros before hoes.
So suave bros before hoes.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.