narcissist
Master Don Juan
day 7. first week done
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
NoFap September 2017
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
day 8
Michael Corleone.
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Day 7
resilient
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What's up DJs?
I made it to day25 before a reset (w/o porn). Almost 30 days, homies.
At least five good things from this month experiment:
1) I didn't look at any porn - zip, zilch, nada
2) I was more visible, active, and social
3) I got a few #s and social media contacts (w/o approaching heavily...)
4) I felt more relaxed, comfortable and confident in my own skin (fewer nerves, approach anxiety)
5) Experienced IDGAF vibe more often
For me, I'm getting closer to achieving the goal I envisioned for NoFap all along these past few months: quit porn. I haven't looked at it as heavily when I was a teenager in recent years, yet it has still been my crutch when I felt low or lonely.
Last year as I mentioned in my OP, I was successful at giving up porn and acquiring a fwb for a while.
I want to quit porn forever, so I can objectively look at potential relationships from a healthier perspective.
I made it to day25 before a reset (w/o porn). Almost 30 days, homies.
At least five good things from this month experiment:
1) I didn't look at any porn - zip, zilch, nada
2) I was more visible, active, and social
3) I got a few #s and social media contacts (w/o approaching heavily...)
4) I felt more relaxed, comfortable and confident in my own skin (fewer nerves, approach anxiety)
5) Experienced IDGAF vibe more often
For me, I'm getting closer to achieving the goal I envisioned for NoFap all along these past few months: quit porn. I haven't looked at it as heavily when I was a teenager in recent years, yet it has still been my crutch when I felt low or lonely.
Last year as I mentioned in my OP, I was successful at giving up porn and acquiring a fwb for a while.
I want to quit porn forever, so I can objectively look at potential relationships from a healthier perspective.
PeasantPlayer
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If I go no fap I'll nut in 10 seconds
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
Day 2, i'm 100% in.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Been EXTREMELY sick for the past 8 days.
In and out of hospital getting intravenous antibiotics.
no energy to fap at all.
DAY 15.
In and out of hospital getting intravenous antibiotics.
no energy to fap at all.
DAY 15.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
day 16
narcissist
Master Don Juan
day 18
almost gave in today.
almost gave in today.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
resilient
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day5
Looks like a new month, djs.
I had and interesting body language/signals experience after church today.
I spotted a girl I met recently a few weeks back. I waved her over. Met her in the middle. Her body language was antsy/nervous, she swayed side to side, had difficulty keeping eye contact with me and looked to the left when talking.
I turned my body parallel to hers so she would feel less nervous. I tried to keep the convo short because I wanted to get home for lunch. She told me to wait as she noticed I was thinking of leaving.
Anyway, got the # close and set up a date for later this week. She asked what I was doing later today and I said I might hit some place up and she invited me to an event later this month. Cool.
While I was talking to her, an attractive woman in a dress with her husband who was carrying their new baby walked past me. The woman totally eye balled me hard in a sustained look as she passed. That rarely happens. I wonder if she eyeballed me because I was talking to this girl in set. If the girl I was talking to wasn't there, would she still have checked me out?
Interesting stuff
NoFap rocks. I probably would been nervous too if I was fapping. Lmao.
Looks like a new month, djs.
I had and interesting body language/signals experience after church today.
I spotted a girl I met recently a few weeks back. I waved her over. Met her in the middle. Her body language was antsy/nervous, she swayed side to side, had difficulty keeping eye contact with me and looked to the left when talking.
I turned my body parallel to hers so she would feel less nervous. I tried to keep the convo short because I wanted to get home for lunch. She told me to wait as she noticed I was thinking of leaving.
Anyway, got the # close and set up a date for later this week. She asked what I was doing later today and I said I might hit some place up and she invited me to an event later this month. Cool.
While I was talking to her, an attractive woman in a dress with her husband who was carrying their new baby walked past me. The woman totally eye balled me hard in a sustained look as she passed. That rarely happens. I wonder if she eyeballed me because I was talking to this girl in set. If the girl I was talking to wasn't there, would she still have checked me out?
Interesting stuff
NoFap rocks. I probably would been nervous too if I was fapping. Lmao.
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ChristopherColumbus
Master Don Juan
Hitting on girls at church? No wonder that woman 'eye-balled' you.
MatureDJ
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And your body did use your slumber to clean the pipes in that period of time?
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
DAY 6 Going to plate tonight to fvck her hard.
So suave bros before hoes.
So suave bros before hoes.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.