No second Dates. What am I doing wrong?

[inquisitor]

One question. Are you escalating sexually?

Agree for the most part with everyone here. Implied escalation gets you closer to your goals, if you even have any. This involves crossing intimate boundaries using verbal communication, body language, physical contact, the usual.

Moreover, answer this bonus question if you can, and you decide whether to tell us or not. What do you really want?

 

[Gamisch]

No approach, no women.

No money no quality p00sy long term I'll leave it that for now.

 

[MatureDJ]

I’m 28 now, but for most of my life I was the quiet, introverted type — the kind of guy who barely had any interactions with women. Approaching someone, flirting, making the first move… none of that was part of my world.

Things changed in August when I created profiles on Tinder and Hinge. I uploaded a few strong photos, and out of nowhere the matches started stacking up. Texting was rough at first, but I got better quickly. These days I usually end up exchanging numbers and setting up dates after only a handful of messages. It turns out I fit the “Chad” stereotype more than I ever realized.

Messaging flows smoothly for me: I’m relaxed, playful, confident, and there’s usually some flirting or tension. But once the conversation moves offline, something doesn’t seem to click. Since August I’ve been on 15 first dates with 15 different women — and every single one has ended there. No follow-up dates at all.

I initially suspected it might be my appearance, so on dates I sometimes ask whether I look like my photos. They always say yes with a smile, so that doesn’t appear to be the problem. Instead, the comments I hear afterward are things like: “The vibe wasn’t quite right,” “There wasn’t a spark,” “I don’t feel a connection,” or the familiar “Let’s stay friends.”

Maybe I’m not generating enough chemistry in person, or maybe I come across as overly polite. Honestly, I’m still trying to figure it out.

You are probably Normie-tier in looks. This is the death zone for a man's genetic legacy.

 

[crowolf]

- Tom Torero: Street Hustle

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Dude is a beta simp and he is gonna go 0-30 based on simp mentality.

 

[Divorced w 3]

You say you can text women

You cant converse the same way in person

sounds simple

Sounds like social anxiety

see a psychiatrist - get meds - profit

 

[sevbucmash]

Wow, is messaging someone on dating apps considered approaching nowadays?

Hell yea! Most people online date, if this dude met a chick off line that's a success story!

 

[seducebeginner]

Hello everyone, thank you for your comments. I solved my problem. it was a lack of physical escalation. I'm had a date today with a lady from online dating app and ended up with good sex

 

[seducebeginner]

I am also active in the real world and I only approach a women when I receive a signal from them. Actually I don't need that because I get so many women online, and it's much easier than approaching girls outside.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Hello everyone, thank you for your comments. I solved my problem. it was a lack of physical escalation. I'm having a date today with a lady from online dating app and ended up with good sex

Having? Why are you posting instead of eating her pus.sy?

 

[seducebeginner]

Having? Why are you posting instead of eating her *****?
[/QUOTE]
Sorry for the confusion. I meant to say 'I had sex,' not 'I'm having sex.' English is not my native language. By the way, her ***** was beautiful and very tasty.