hb
Master Don Juan
Some girl tells me she's not looking for anything just casual hookups but when she thinks im talking to her friend she tells me I'll be dead to her even tho we don't have ANYTHING!
WTF?
WTF?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
No relationship but I also can't "talk" to her friend
- Thread starter hb
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
hb
Master Don Juan
Basically chicks can have their cake and eat it too'?
Young Juan
Senior Don Juan
So then just fvck her friend. If her friend is down, that sounds like her personal problem. If her friend is down, she'll know to keep it on the low. If you ain't cheatin, you ain't tryin.
There's a fine line between honesty and stupidity. If her friend is truly down, get it in with the friend first cuz the friend sounds like the type to let you fvck other chicks. This girl sounds like she knows her friend will fvck you in a heartbeat and play dumb.
There's a fine line between honesty and stupidity. If her friend is truly down, get it in with the friend first cuz the friend sounds like the type to let you fvck other chicks. This girl sounds like she knows her friend will fvck you in a heartbeat and play dumb.
hb
Master Don Juan
i actually like your advice & it leads me into thinking that any man who listens to a girl is a fool, my uncle once told me, listen.. but dont LISTEN loool
Never let a ***** tell u what to do. Or disrespect you. If youll be dead to her who gives a ****. Your not even fuvking. Y would yo waste a moment of your time ona ***** that aint choosing you when you could be using that time on a ***** that is (her friend and millions of other females).
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Proselytiser
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**** her friend until the first girl finds out by which point you've probably milked the first for all she's worth anyway - regardless of whether she follows through on her threat you're better off
Guys, she's saying all that because she's jealous - it's a test to see if she can manipulate you. Just flirt with her when you see her (and keep talking to her friend), I think she will fall for the charm when she sees you aren't listening to her.