hb
Master Don Juan
Some girl tells me she's not looking for anything just casual hookups but when she thinks im talking to her friend she tells me I'll be dead to her even tho we don't have ANYTHING!
WTF?
WTF?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
No relationship but I also can't "talk" to her friend
- Thread starter hb
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
hb
Master Don Juan
Basically chicks can have their cake and eat it too'?
Young Juan
Senior Don Juan
So then just fvck her friend. If her friend is down, that sounds like her personal problem. If her friend is down, she'll know to keep it on the low. If you ain't cheatin, you ain't tryin.
There's a fine line between honesty and stupidity. If her friend is truly down, get it in with the friend first cuz the friend sounds like the type to let you fvck other chicks. This girl sounds like she knows her friend will fvck you in a heartbeat and play dumb.
There's a fine line between honesty and stupidity. If her friend is truly down, get it in with the friend first cuz the friend sounds like the type to let you fvck other chicks. This girl sounds like she knows her friend will fvck you in a heartbeat and play dumb.
hb
Master Don Juan
i actually like your advice & it leads me into thinking that any man who listens to a girl is a fool, my uncle once told me, listen.. but dont LISTEN loool
Never let a ***** tell u what to do. Or disrespect you. If youll be dead to her who gives a ****. Your not even fuvking. Y would yo waste a moment of your time ona ***** that aint choosing you when you could be using that time on a ***** that is (her friend and millions of other females).
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Proselytiser
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**** her friend until the first girl finds out by which point you've probably milked the first for all she's worth anyway - regardless of whether she follows through on her threat you're better off
Guys, she's saying all that because she's jealous - it's a test to see if she can manipulate you. Just flirt with her when you see her (and keep talking to her friend), I think she will fall for the charm when she sees you aren't listening to her.