"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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No relationship but I also can't "talk" to her friend

hb

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Some girl tells me she's not looking for anything just casual hookups but when she thinks im talking to her friend she tells me I'll be dead to her even tho we don't have ANYTHING!

WTF?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Young Juan

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So then just fvck her friend. If her friend is down, that sounds like her personal problem. If her friend is down, she'll know to keep it on the low. If you ain't cheatin, you ain't tryin.

There's a fine line between honesty and stupidity. If her friend is truly down, get it in with the friend first cuz the friend sounds like the type to let you fvck other chicks. This girl sounds like she knows her friend will fvck you in a heartbeat and play dumb.
 

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i actually like your advice & it leads me into thinking that any man who listens to a girl is a fool, my uncle once told me, listen.. but dont LISTEN loool
 

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Never let a ***** tell u what to do. Or disrespect you. If youll be dead to her who gives a ****. Your not even fuvking. Y would yo waste a moment of your time ona ***** that aint choosing you when you could be using that time on a ***** that is (her friend and millions of other females).
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Guys, she's saying all that because she's jealous - it's a test to see if she can manipulate you. Just flirt with her when you see her (and keep talking to her friend), I think she will fall for the charm when she sees you aren't listening to her.
 
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