hb
Master Don Juan
Some girl tells me she's not looking for anything just casual hookups but when she thinks im talking to her friend she tells me I'll be dead to her even tho we don't have ANYTHING!
WTF?
WTF?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
No relationship but I also can't "talk" to her friend
- Thread starter hb
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
hb
Master Don Juan
Basically chicks can have their cake and eat it too'?
Young Juan
Senior Don Juan
So then just fvck her friend. If her friend is down, that sounds like her personal problem. If her friend is down, she'll know to keep it on the low. If you ain't cheatin, you ain't tryin.
There's a fine line between honesty and stupidity. If her friend is truly down, get it in with the friend first cuz the friend sounds like the type to let you fvck other chicks. This girl sounds like she knows her friend will fvck you in a heartbeat and play dumb.
There's a fine line between honesty and stupidity. If her friend is truly down, get it in with the friend first cuz the friend sounds like the type to let you fvck other chicks. This girl sounds like she knows her friend will fvck you in a heartbeat and play dumb.
hb
Master Don Juan
i actually like your advice & it leads me into thinking that any man who listens to a girl is a fool, my uncle once told me, listen.. but dont LISTEN loool
Never let a ***** tell u what to do. Or disrespect you. If youll be dead to her who gives a ****. Your not even fuvking. Y would yo waste a moment of your time ona ***** that aint choosing you when you could be using that time on a ***** that is (her friend and millions of other females).
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Proselytiser
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**** her friend until the first girl finds out by which point you've probably milked the first for all she's worth anyway - regardless of whether she follows through on her threat you're better off
Guys, she's saying all that because she's jealous - it's a test to see if she can manipulate you. Just flirt with her when you see her (and keep talking to her friend), I think she will fall for the charm when she sees you aren't listening to her.