"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

no pregnancy please

S

sbgm

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 16, 2006
Messages
169
Reaction score
1
Location
Singapore
Hello!
Just found this girl and dated her two times. Second time we made out and have a bit fun (but no sex). I don't wanna make her pregnant.

She says she doesn't like having sex with a condom and she says she's taking birth control pills.

The thing is, I'm an aspiring businessman and she's unemployed, so I wonder if the maternal instincts will set in and she "forgets" to take the pill and then she's pregnant... I know I'm not ready for having a kid...

What should I do?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

I

Iceberg

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 19, 2002
Messages
3,110
Reaction score
136
Age
45
Location
Manhattan, NY
You're an aspiring businessman dating an unemployed woman who doesn't like using condoms?

You should definitely raw dog her then. Sex with unemployed women who don't use condoms is the best kind of sex.

Come on, buddy......
 
Thundernuts

Thundernuts

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 28, 2010
Messages
391
Reaction score
16
Location
Sealy, Tx
hmm. unemployed...doesn't use condoms...how long have you known this girl.

I seriously doubt she is on the pill, most likely she is looking for some guy with money to come along and get her pregnant. You'd be surprised how many women will have a kid just to get child support. This exact same thing happened to my brother because the woman saw that he had money and was going places.

Put a cap on it, if she gets all pissed off about it you will know what she was trying to do.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Paintballguy

Paintballguy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 18, 2004
Messages
961
Reaction score
16
Location
Maryland
wow please wrap it up.

this happened to a guy i work with. the chick was like, "its ok i'm on the pill". well 9 months later, a kid popped out.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top