"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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no pregnancy please

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Hello!
Just found this girl and dated her two times. Second time we made out and have a bit fun (but no sex). I don't wanna make her pregnant.

She says she doesn't like having sex with a condom and she says she's taking birth control pills.

The thing is, I'm an aspiring businessman and she's unemployed, so I wonder if the maternal instincts will set in and she "forgets" to take the pill and then she's pregnant... I know I'm not ready for having a kid...

What should I do?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You're an aspiring businessman dating an unemployed woman who doesn't like using condoms?

You should definitely raw dog her then. Sex with unemployed women who don't use condoms is the best kind of sex.

Come on, buddy......
 
Thundernuts

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hmm. unemployed...doesn't use condoms...how long have you known this girl.

I seriously doubt she is on the pill, most likely she is looking for some guy with money to come along and get her pregnant. You'd be surprised how many women will have a kid just to get child support. This exact same thing happened to my brother because the woman saw that he had money and was going places.

Put a cap on it, if she gets all pissed off about it you will know what she was trying to do.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Paintballguy

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wow please wrap it up.

this happened to a guy i work with. the chick was like, "its ok i'm on the pill". well 9 months later, a kid popped out.
 
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