"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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no pregnancy please

sbgm

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Hello!
Just found this girl and dated her two times. Second time we made out and have a bit fun (but no sex). I don't wanna make her pregnant.

She says she doesn't like having sex with a condom and she says she's taking birth control pills.

The thing is, I'm an aspiring businessman and she's unemployed, so I wonder if the maternal instincts will set in and she "forgets" to take the pill and then she's pregnant... I know I'm not ready for having a kid...

What should I do?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Iceberg

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You're an aspiring businessman dating an unemployed woman who doesn't like using condoms?

You should definitely raw dog her then. Sex with unemployed women who don't use condoms is the best kind of sex.

Come on, buddy......
 

Thundernuts

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hmm. unemployed...doesn't use condoms...how long have you known this girl.

I seriously doubt she is on the pill, most likely she is looking for some guy with money to come along and get her pregnant. You'd be surprised how many women will have a kid just to get child support. This exact same thing happened to my brother because the woman saw that he had money and was going places.

Put a cap on it, if she gets all pissed off about it you will know what she was trying to do.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Paintballguy

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wow please wrap it up.

this happened to a guy i work with. the chick was like, "its ok i'm on the pill". well 9 months later, a kid popped out.
 
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