"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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no pregnancy please

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Hello!
Just found this girl and dated her two times. Second time we made out and have a bit fun (but no sex). I don't wanna make her pregnant.

She says she doesn't like having sex with a condom and she says she's taking birth control pills.

The thing is, I'm an aspiring businessman and she's unemployed, so I wonder if the maternal instincts will set in and she "forgets" to take the pill and then she's pregnant... I know I'm not ready for having a kid...

What should I do?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You're an aspiring businessman dating an unemployed woman who doesn't like using condoms?

You should definitely raw dog her then. Sex with unemployed women who don't use condoms is the best kind of sex.

Come on, buddy......
 
Thundernuts

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hmm. unemployed...doesn't use condoms...how long have you known this girl.

I seriously doubt she is on the pill, most likely she is looking for some guy with money to come along and get her pregnant. You'd be surprised how many women will have a kid just to get child support. This exact same thing happened to my brother because the woman saw that he had money and was going places.

Put a cap on it, if she gets all pissed off about it you will know what she was trying to do.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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wow please wrap it up.

this happened to a guy i work with. the chick was like, "its ok i'm on the pill". well 9 months later, a kid popped out.
 
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