"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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no pregnancy please

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Hello!
Just found this girl and dated her two times. Second time we made out and have a bit fun (but no sex). I don't wanna make her pregnant.

She says she doesn't like having sex with a condom and she says she's taking birth control pills.

The thing is, I'm an aspiring businessman and she's unemployed, so I wonder if the maternal instincts will set in and she "forgets" to take the pill and then she's pregnant... I know I'm not ready for having a kid...

What should I do?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You're an aspiring businessman dating an unemployed woman who doesn't like using condoms?

You should definitely raw dog her then. Sex with unemployed women who don't use condoms is the best kind of sex.

Come on, buddy......
 
Thundernuts

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hmm. unemployed...doesn't use condoms...how long have you known this girl.

I seriously doubt she is on the pill, most likely she is looking for some guy with money to come along and get her pregnant. You'd be surprised how many women will have a kid just to get child support. This exact same thing happened to my brother because the woman saw that he had money and was going places.

Put a cap on it, if she gets all pissed off about it you will know what she was trying to do.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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wow please wrap it up.

this happened to a guy i work with. the chick was like, "its ok i'm on the pill". well 9 months later, a kid popped out.
 
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