“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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No More Lonely Weekends

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I'M THROUGHLY PIS$3D ABOUT HAVING NOTHING TO DO ON THE WEEKENDS Its about time I grow dem balls and do something about this. I moved to my city about a year ago and still havent met a lot of people it f***in sucks:cuss: , no more watching movies on the weekends, no more working, no more being bored:box: im gonna go out their and get laid...this post is a kick in a$$ for myself. Feel free to use it for ur motivation. WHO'S WITH ME?:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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<<< crickets chirping in the backgroud... >>>
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
<<< crickets chirping in the backgroud... >>>
lol

To OP: good for you man. A strong resolve is the first step! :)
 

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Go to a movie on the weekend. Go have a drink or a cup of coffee afterwards and hang out and people watch. Go to a barnes and noble and chill out reading magazines. Take a walk in the park or whatever nature-type place people tend to congregate on the weekends. Take a day trip to somewhere you haven't been to before, zoos, museums, whatever.

Have fun, alone. Learn to be comfortable, doing relaxing, enjoyable things where other people are, but my advice would be don't have huge expectations of meeting your future best buddy or girlfriend. It will take the pressure off.

I think you'll find that if you're comfortable, by yourself, and are just enjoying the moment, you'll be more relaxed and confident, and this will put you in a better position to strike up natrual, casual conversations with strangers.
 

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Go to a movie on the weekend. Go have a drink or a cup of coffee afterwards and hang out and people watch. Go to a barnes and noble and chill out reading magazines. Take a walk in the park or whatever nature-type place people tend to congregate on the weekends. Take a day trip to somewhere you haven't been to before, zoos, museums, whatever.

Have fun, alone. Learn to be comfortable, doing relaxing, enjoyable things where other people are, but my advice would be don't have huge expectations of meeting your future best buddy or girlfriend. It will take the pressure off.

I think you'll find that if you're comfortable, by yourself, and are just enjoying the moment, you'll be more relaxed and confident, and this will put you in a better position to strike up natrual, casual conversations with strangers.
wtf......
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Just sharing what worked for me.
 

So pimp its scary

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Yes... I am going out tonight after a 1 month break in the action... (switching jobs set me back... but now within that month has turned to a boost in salary, so fack it)

I'm gonna go hard whether or not any of my buddies join me or not.

G'luck.
 

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STICK IT TO THE MAN!!

but seriously good for you, why dont you befriend some people at work, or take a class or something, just try to meet people first, thats the first step to having stuff to do
 
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