"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'M THROUGHLY PIS$3D ABOUT HAVING NOTHING TO DO ON THE WEEKENDS Its about time I grow dem balls and do something about this. I moved to my city about a year ago and still havent met a lot of people it f***in sucks:cuss: , no more watching movies on the weekends, no more working, no more being bored:box: im gonna go out their and get laid...this post is a kick in a$$ for myself. Feel free to use it for ur motivation. WHO'S WITH ME?:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
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lol

To OP: good for you man. A strong resolve is the first step! :)
 
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Go to a movie on the weekend. Go have a drink or a cup of coffee afterwards and hang out and people watch. Go to a barnes and noble and chill out reading magazines. Take a walk in the park or whatever nature-type place people tend to congregate on the weekends. Take a day trip to somewhere you haven't been to before, zoos, museums, whatever.

Have fun, alone. Learn to be comfortable, doing relaxing, enjoyable things where other people are, but my advice would be don't have huge expectations of meeting your future best buddy or girlfriend. It will take the pressure off.

I think you'll find that if you're comfortable, by yourself, and are just enjoying the moment, you'll be more relaxed and confident, and this will put you in a better position to strike up natrual, casual conversations with strangers.
 
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Go to a movie on the weekend. Go have a drink or a cup of coffee afterwards and hang out and people watch. Go to a barnes and noble and chill out reading magazines. Take a walk in the park or whatever nature-type place people tend to congregate on the weekends. Take a day trip to somewhere you haven't been to before, zoos, museums, whatever.

Have fun, alone. Learn to be comfortable, doing relaxing, enjoyable things where other people are, but my advice would be don't have huge expectations of meeting your future best buddy or girlfriend. It will take the pressure off.

I think you'll find that if you're comfortable, by yourself, and are just enjoying the moment, you'll be more relaxed and confident, and this will put you in a better position to strike up natrual, casual conversations with strangers.
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wtf......
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just sharing what worked for me.
 
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Yes... I am going out tonight after a 1 month break in the action... (switching jobs set me back... but now within that month has turned to a boost in salary, so fack it)

I'm gonna go hard whether or not any of my buddies join me or not.

G'luck.
 
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STICK IT TO THE MAN!!

but seriously good for you, why dont you befriend some people at work, or take a class or something, just try to meet people first, thats the first step to having stuff to do
 
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