"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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No More Lonely Weekends

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I'M THROUGHLY PIS$3D ABOUT HAVING NOTHING TO DO ON THE WEEKENDS Its about time I grow dem balls and do something about this. I moved to my city about a year ago and still havent met a lot of people it f***in sucks:cuss: , no more watching movies on the weekends, no more working, no more being bored:box: im gonna go out their and get laid...this post is a kick in a$$ for myself. Feel free to use it for ur motivation. WHO'S WITH ME?:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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<<< crickets chirping in the backgroud... >>>
 
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
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lol

To OP: good for you man. A strong resolve is the first step! :)
 
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Go to a movie on the weekend. Go have a drink or a cup of coffee afterwards and hang out and people watch. Go to a barnes and noble and chill out reading magazines. Take a walk in the park or whatever nature-type place people tend to congregate on the weekends. Take a day trip to somewhere you haven't been to before, zoos, museums, whatever.

Have fun, alone. Learn to be comfortable, doing relaxing, enjoyable things where other people are, but my advice would be don't have huge expectations of meeting your future best buddy or girlfriend. It will take the pressure off.

I think you'll find that if you're comfortable, by yourself, and are just enjoying the moment, you'll be more relaxed and confident, and this will put you in a better position to strike up natrual, casual conversations with strangers.
 
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Go to a movie on the weekend. Go have a drink or a cup of coffee afterwards and hang out and people watch. Go to a barnes and noble and chill out reading magazines. Take a walk in the park or whatever nature-type place people tend to congregate on the weekends. Take a day trip to somewhere you haven't been to before, zoos, museums, whatever.

Have fun, alone. Learn to be comfortable, doing relaxing, enjoyable things where other people are, but my advice would be don't have huge expectations of meeting your future best buddy or girlfriend. It will take the pressure off.

I think you'll find that if you're comfortable, by yourself, and are just enjoying the moment, you'll be more relaxed and confident, and this will put you in a better position to strike up natrual, casual conversations with strangers.
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wtf......
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Just sharing what worked for me.
 
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Yes... I am going out tonight after a 1 month break in the action... (switching jobs set me back... but now within that month has turned to a boost in salary, so fack it)

I'm gonna go hard whether or not any of my buddies join me or not.

G'luck.
 
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STICK IT TO THE MAN!!

but seriously good for you, why dont you befriend some people at work, or take a class or something, just try to meet people first, thats the first step to having stuff to do
 
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