"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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No More Lonely Weekends

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I'M THROUGHLY PIS$3D ABOUT HAVING NOTHING TO DO ON THE WEEKENDS Its about time I grow dem balls and do something about this. I moved to my city about a year ago and still havent met a lot of people it f***in sucks:cuss: , no more watching movies on the weekends, no more working, no more being bored:box: im gonna go out their and get laid...this post is a kick in a$$ for myself. Feel free to use it for ur motivation. WHO'S WITH ME?:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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<<< crickets chirping in the backgroud... >>>
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
<<< crickets chirping in the backgroud... >>>
lol

To OP: good for you man. A strong resolve is the first step! :)
 

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Go to a movie on the weekend. Go have a drink or a cup of coffee afterwards and hang out and people watch. Go to a barnes and noble and chill out reading magazines. Take a walk in the park or whatever nature-type place people tend to congregate on the weekends. Take a day trip to somewhere you haven't been to before, zoos, museums, whatever.

Have fun, alone. Learn to be comfortable, doing relaxing, enjoyable things where other people are, but my advice would be don't have huge expectations of meeting your future best buddy or girlfriend. It will take the pressure off.

I think you'll find that if you're comfortable, by yourself, and are just enjoying the moment, you'll be more relaxed and confident, and this will put you in a better position to strike up natrual, casual conversations with strangers.
 

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reset said:
Go to a movie on the weekend. Go have a drink or a cup of coffee afterwards and hang out and people watch. Go to a barnes and noble and chill out reading magazines. Take a walk in the park or whatever nature-type place people tend to congregate on the weekends. Take a day trip to somewhere you haven't been to before, zoos, museums, whatever.

Have fun, alone. Learn to be comfortable, doing relaxing, enjoyable things where other people are, but my advice would be don't have huge expectations of meeting your future best buddy or girlfriend. It will take the pressure off.

I think you'll find that if you're comfortable, by yourself, and are just enjoying the moment, you'll be more relaxed and confident, and this will put you in a better position to strike up natrual, casual conversations with strangers.
wtf......
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Just sharing what worked for me.
 

So pimp its scary

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Yes... I am going out tonight after a 1 month break in the action... (switching jobs set me back... but now within that month has turned to a boost in salary, so fack it)

I'm gonna go hard whether or not any of my buddies join me or not.

G'luck.
 

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STICK IT TO THE MAN!!

but seriously good for you, why dont you befriend some people at work, or take a class or something, just try to meet people first, thats the first step to having stuff to do
 
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