"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm getting increasingly frustrated. I have literally no market to work with in terms of finding girls to hit on.

When I go out, to the mall, anywhere, girls are always in unapproachable groups with their female friends.

I go to a small university, in science, with no campus activities, so all the girls are pretty ugly, the rare cute one is a Bible beater.

I really have no market to draw from. Any ideas?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Suck it up princess. Make do with what you've got, or get yourself setup and move out of the hick ass town that you would have to live in with zero opportunity.
 
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Um, yeah.... Houston is really a small hick ass town. Right.


Girls just cant seem to exist if they're not in a group of 542 other girls/guys.
 
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Originally posted by snintel
I'm getting increasingly frustrated. I have literally no market to work with in terms of finding girls to hit on.

When I go out, to the mall, anywhere, girls are always in unapproachable groups with their female friends.

I go to a small university, in science, with no campus activities, so all the girls are pretty ugly, the rare cute one is a Bible beater.

I really have no market to draw from. Any ideas?
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Simple : Approach the crowd of 542 women, talk to your target, seclude her, thenget her number or whatever you want.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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call me old-fashioned but i believe that all you really need is a DESIRE that is Strong enough and belief in your own self.
somehow, it seems to me that your Desire aint quite "up there".
 
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Everyone knows you don't approach a group of girls. Girls don't act themselves, and you've got to penetrate the Ugly Fat Friend line of defense, which can be a daunting task.
 
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belividere

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you live in a city with more than 2 million people.
 
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Houston, Texas you say? In a city with 2 million people, how is this possible you ask?

Understand, my young padawans, that fear of failure and lack of desire...the AFC way these are.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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even if the ladies rol. together in packs,approach them anyways.failing is better then sitting back and wondering "what if" for a long time.
 
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