"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm getting increasingly frustrated. I have literally no market to work with in terms of finding girls to hit on.

When I go out, to the mall, anywhere, girls are always in unapproachable groups with their female friends.

I go to a small university, in science, with no campus activities, so all the girls are pretty ugly, the rare cute one is a Bible beater.

I really have no market to draw from. Any ideas?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Suck it up princess. Make do with what you've got, or get yourself setup and move out of the hick ass town that you would have to live in with zero opportunity.
 
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Um, yeah.... Houston is really a small hick ass town. Right.


Girls just cant seem to exist if they're not in a group of 542 other girls/guys.
 
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Originally posted by snintel
I'm getting increasingly frustrated. I have literally no market to work with in terms of finding girls to hit on.

When I go out, to the mall, anywhere, girls are always in unapproachable groups with their female friends.

I go to a small university, in science, with no campus activities, so all the girls are pretty ugly, the rare cute one is a Bible beater.

I really have no market to draw from. Any ideas?
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Simple : Approach the crowd of 542 women, talk to your target, seclude her, thenget her number or whatever you want.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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call me old-fashioned but i believe that all you really need is a DESIRE that is Strong enough and belief in your own self.
somehow, it seems to me that your Desire aint quite "up there".
 
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Everyone knows you don't approach a group of girls. Girls don't act themselves, and you've got to penetrate the Ugly Fat Friend line of defense, which can be a daunting task.
 
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belividere

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you live in a city with more than 2 million people.
 
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Houston, Texas you say? In a city with 2 million people, how is this possible you ask?

Understand, my young padawans, that fear of failure and lack of desire...the AFC way these are.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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even if the ladies rol. together in packs,approach them anyways.failing is better then sitting back and wondering "what if" for a long time.
 
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