"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm getting increasingly frustrated. I have literally no market to work with in terms of finding girls to hit on.

When I go out, to the mall, anywhere, girls are always in unapproachable groups with their female friends.

I go to a small university, in science, with no campus activities, so all the girls are pretty ugly, the rare cute one is a Bible beater.

I really have no market to draw from. Any ideas?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Suck it up princess. Make do with what you've got, or get yourself setup and move out of the hick ass town that you would have to live in with zero opportunity.
 
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Um, yeah.... Houston is really a small hick ass town. Right.


Girls just cant seem to exist if they're not in a group of 542 other girls/guys.
 
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Originally posted by snintel
I'm getting increasingly frustrated. I have literally no market to work with in terms of finding girls to hit on.

When I go out, to the mall, anywhere, girls are always in unapproachable groups with their female friends.

I go to a small university, in science, with no campus activities, so all the girls are pretty ugly, the rare cute one is a Bible beater.

I really have no market to draw from. Any ideas?
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So pimp its scary

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Simple : Approach the crowd of 542 women, talk to your target, seclude her, thenget her number or whatever you want.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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call me old-fashioned but i believe that all you really need is a DESIRE that is Strong enough and belief in your own self.
somehow, it seems to me that your Desire aint quite "up there".
 
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Everyone knows you don't approach a group of girls. Girls don't act themselves, and you've got to penetrate the Ugly Fat Friend line of defense, which can be a daunting task.
 
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you live in a city with more than 2 million people.
 
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Houston, Texas you say? In a city with 2 million people, how is this possible you ask?

Understand, my young padawans, that fear of failure and lack of desire...the AFC way these are.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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even if the ladies rol. together in packs,approach them anyways.failing is better then sitting back and wondering "what if" for a long time.
 
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