"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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No market for females

snintel

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I'm getting increasingly frustrated. I have literally no market to work with in terms of finding girls to hit on.

When I go out, to the mall, anywhere, girls are always in unapproachable groups with their female friends.

I go to a small university, in science, with no campus activities, so all the girls are pretty ugly, the rare cute one is a Bible beater.

I really have no market to draw from. Any ideas?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So pimp its scary

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Suck it up princess. Make do with what you've got, or get yourself setup and move out of the hick ass town that you would have to live in with zero opportunity.
 

snintel

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Um, yeah.... Houston is really a small hick ass town. Right.


Girls just cant seem to exist if they're not in a group of 542 other girls/guys.
 

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Originally posted by snintel
I'm getting increasingly frustrated. I have literally no market to work with in terms of finding girls to hit on.

When I go out, to the mall, anywhere, girls are always in unapproachable groups with their female friends.

I go to a small university, in science, with no campus activities, so all the girls are pretty ugly, the rare cute one is a Bible beater.

I really have no market to draw from. Any ideas?
Excuser.
 

So pimp its scary

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Simple : Approach the crowd of 542 women, talk to your target, seclude her, thenget her number or whatever you want.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Eddie

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call me old-fashioned but i believe that all you really need is a DESIRE that is Strong enough and belief in your own self.
somehow, it seems to me that your Desire aint quite "up there".
 

snintel

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Everyone knows you don't approach a group of girls. Girls don't act themselves, and you've got to penetrate the Ugly Fat Friend line of defense, which can be a daunting task.
 

belividere

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you live in a city with more than 2 million people.
 

darth yoda

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Houston, Texas you say? In a city with 2 million people, how is this possible you ask?

Understand, my young padawans, that fear of failure and lack of desire...the AFC way these are.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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blinkwatt

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even if the ladies rol. together in packs,approach them anyways.failing is better then sitting back and wondering "what if" for a long time.
 
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