"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
no kiss on the first date, just a hug
- Thread starter No Escape
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Good_ol_boy
Senior Don Juan
(Some women make it a "principle" not to kiss on the first date, even if they are interested.)
Women really need to stop giving giving a sh*t about that! I don't look at women any differently if they move fast. I don't judge women based on how "fast" they move. Who cares if a woman chooses to move fast. I feel like we still live in Puritan society, it's crazy. Some men criticize women for being promiscuous, and then they b*tch and wonder why it takes them forever to get action from the opposite sex.Originally posted by Good_ol_boy
Or maybe she reads this forum and figures if she kissis on the first date she'll be "fast" and a slvt and ho.
Good_ol_boy
Senior Don Juan
I agree with you, I was commenting on:
"I feel like we still live in Puritan society, it's crazy. Some men criticize women for being promiscuous, and then they b*tch and wonder why it takes them forever to get action from the opposite sex."
Those guys!!