"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
no kiss on the first date, just a hug
- Thread starter No Escape
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Good_ol_boy
Senior Don Juan
(Some women make it a "principle" not to kiss on the first date, even if they are interested.)
Women really need to stop giving giving a sh*t about that! I don't look at women any differently if they move fast. I don't judge women based on how "fast" they move. Who cares if a woman chooses to move fast. I feel like we still live in Puritan society, it's crazy. Some men criticize women for being promiscuous, and then they b*tch and wonder why it takes them forever to get action from the opposite sex.Originally posted by Good_ol_boy
Or maybe she reads this forum and figures if she kissis on the first date she'll be "fast" and a slvt and ho.
Good_ol_boy
Senior Don Juan
I agree with you, I was commenting on:
"I feel like we still live in Puritan society, it's crazy. Some men criticize women for being promiscuous, and then they b*tch and wonder why it takes them forever to get action from the opposite sex."
Those guys!!