"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
no kiss on the first date, just a hug
- Thread starter No Escape
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Good_ol_boy
Senior Don Juan
(Some women make it a "principle" not to kiss on the first date, even if they are interested.)
Women really need to stop giving giving a sh*t about that! I don't look at women any differently if they move fast. I don't judge women based on how "fast" they move. Who cares if a woman chooses to move fast. I feel like we still live in Puritan society, it's crazy. Some men criticize women for being promiscuous, and then they b*tch and wonder why it takes them forever to get action from the opposite sex.Originally posted by Good_ol_boy
Or maybe she reads this forum and figures if she kissis on the first date she'll be "fast" and a slvt and ho.
Good_ol_boy
Senior Don Juan
I agree with you, I was commenting on:
"I feel like we still live in Puritan society, it's crazy. Some men criticize women for being promiscuous, and then they b*tch and wonder why it takes them forever to get action from the opposite sex."
Those guys!!