"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
no kiss on the first date, just a hug
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Good_ol_boy
Senior Don Juan
(Some women make it a "principle" not to kiss on the first date, even if they are interested.)
Women really need to stop giving giving a sh*t about that! I don't look at women any differently if they move fast. I don't judge women based on how "fast" they move. Who cares if a woman chooses to move fast. I feel like we still live in Puritan society, it's crazy. Some men criticize women for being promiscuous, and then they b*tch and wonder why it takes them forever to get action from the opposite sex.Originally posted by Good_ol_boy
Or maybe she reads this forum and figures if she kissis on the first date she'll be "fast" and a slvt and ho.
Good_ol_boy
Senior Don Juan
I agree with you, I was commenting on:
"I feel like we still live in Puritan society, it's crazy. Some men criticize women for being promiscuous, and then they b*tch and wonder why it takes them forever to get action from the opposite sex."
Those guys!!