"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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No idea where to start

Man_Of_The_Hour

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Need a serious kick in the ass guys

I've been on this site a while and agree with a lot of the ideas here, even observed them.

My problem seems to be that I have no idea how to go about being a 'Don Juan'

Any help/advice you guys can give?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Fitters

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Get a job
Get a better job
Work in your body
Don't care about what people say if they don't pay your rent/mortgage or insurance
 

Young OG

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Have you been reading the DJ Bible?

"Being a Don Juan is not a net sum of smooth manuevers and methods but of your own outlook on the world and on women. ANYONE can memorize 'techniques', but FEW can change the way HOW they think. Women will be able to sniff out the former. But with the latter, women will be clawing each other for you.

A Don Juan is a state of mind, not a list of methods and tricks." -Pook

You cannot expect to become a DJ overnight. It takes lot of practice. I still consider myself a DJ in training. Keep studying the DJ Bible. Read it more then once. Also, work on yourself. Start changing the way you think. Get your appearance up to par. Nice clothes & shoes, movie star style hair, get some muscles, whiten your teeth, nice car, and anything else you can think of to make yourself better. Become a rare commodity.
 

Scars

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DJ bible is a good start. I know everybody says that.. but you'd be surprised how many people skip this step. Read all the texts by pook, and frequent the mature man forum. Don't care if you're 25+ or not, been reading that **** sense I was 17 and you will advance so much faster that way. You don't have to post anything (if you're not of age, you can't anyway) but just soak up the knowledge, lots of gems to be found there.
 
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