"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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No idea where to start

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Need a serious kick in the ass guys

I've been on this site a while and agree with a lot of the ideas here, even observed them.

My problem seems to be that I have no idea how to go about being a 'Don Juan'

Any help/advice you guys can give?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Get a job
Get a better job
Work in your body
Don't care about what people say if they don't pay your rent/mortgage or insurance
 
Young OG

Young OG

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Have you been reading the DJ Bible?

"Being a Don Juan is not a net sum of smooth manuevers and methods but of your own outlook on the world and on women. ANYONE can memorize 'techniques', but FEW can change the way HOW they think. Women will be able to sniff out the former. But with the latter, women will be clawing each other for you.

A Don Juan is a state of mind, not a list of methods and tricks." -Pook

You cannot expect to become a DJ overnight. It takes lot of practice. I still consider myself a DJ in training. Keep studying the DJ Bible. Read it more then once. Also, work on yourself. Start changing the way you think. Get your appearance up to par. Nice clothes & shoes, movie star style hair, get some muscles, whiten your teeth, nice car, and anything else you can think of to make yourself better. Become a rare commodity.
 
Scars

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DJ bible is a good start. I know everybody says that.. but you'd be surprised how many people skip this step. Read all the texts by pook, and frequent the mature man forum. Don't care if you're 25+ or not, been reading that **** sense I was 17 and you will advance so much faster that way. You don't have to post anything (if you're not of age, you can't anyway) but just soak up the knowledge, lots of gems to be found there.
 
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