"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Man_Of_The_Hour

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Need a serious kick in the ass guys

I've been on this site a while and agree with a lot of the ideas here, even observed them.

My problem seems to be that I have no idea how to go about being a 'Don Juan'

Any help/advice you guys can give?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Fitters

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Get a job
Get a better job
Work in your body
Don't care about what people say if they don't pay your rent/mortgage or insurance
 

Young OG

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Have you been reading the DJ Bible?

"Being a Don Juan is not a net sum of smooth manuevers and methods but of your own outlook on the world and on women. ANYONE can memorize 'techniques', but FEW can change the way HOW they think. Women will be able to sniff out the former. But with the latter, women will be clawing each other for you.

A Don Juan is a state of mind, not a list of methods and tricks." -Pook

You cannot expect to become a DJ overnight. It takes lot of practice. I still consider myself a DJ in training. Keep studying the DJ Bible. Read it more then once. Also, work on yourself. Start changing the way you think. Get your appearance up to par. Nice clothes & shoes, movie star style hair, get some muscles, whiten your teeth, nice car, and anything else you can think of to make yourself better. Become a rare commodity.
 

Scars

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DJ bible is a good start. I know everybody says that.. but you'd be surprised how many people skip this step. Read all the texts by pook, and frequent the mature man forum. Don't care if you're 25+ or not, been reading that **** sense I was 17 and you will advance so much faster that way. You don't have to post anything (if you're not of age, you can't anyway) but just soak up the knowledge, lots of gems to be found there.
 
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