"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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No idea where to start

Man_Of_The_Hour

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Need a serious kick in the ass guys

I've been on this site a while and agree with a lot of the ideas here, even observed them.

My problem seems to be that I have no idea how to go about being a 'Don Juan'

Any help/advice you guys can give?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Fitters

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Get a job
Get a better job
Work in your body
Don't care about what people say if they don't pay your rent/mortgage or insurance
 

Young OG

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Have you been reading the DJ Bible?

"Being a Don Juan is not a net sum of smooth manuevers and methods but of your own outlook on the world and on women. ANYONE can memorize 'techniques', but FEW can change the way HOW they think. Women will be able to sniff out the former. But with the latter, women will be clawing each other for you.

A Don Juan is a state of mind, not a list of methods and tricks." -Pook

You cannot expect to become a DJ overnight. It takes lot of practice. I still consider myself a DJ in training. Keep studying the DJ Bible. Read it more then once. Also, work on yourself. Start changing the way you think. Get your appearance up to par. Nice clothes & shoes, movie star style hair, get some muscles, whiten your teeth, nice car, and anything else you can think of to make yourself better. Become a rare commodity.
 

Scars

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DJ bible is a good start. I know everybody says that.. but you'd be surprised how many people skip this step. Read all the texts by pook, and frequent the mature man forum. Don't care if you're 25+ or not, been reading that **** sense I was 17 and you will advance so much faster that way. You don't have to post anything (if you're not of age, you can't anyway) but just soak up the knowledge, lots of gems to be found there.
 
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