Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
No Feelings/Strong
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
The Master Disaster
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"when you see feel comming, and you stayed away from those feelings"
I mean I think I get your drift, but that is a really poor word choice. You can't really see a feeling... that's what makes it a feeling not a barracuda.
But seriously, are you asking how do you cope with feelings?
[S]alvatore
Master Don Juan
If this is the case, have more than 1 girl going at any one time. By doing this you won't worry about losing 1 of them, because you have several other options.
[S]alvatore said:how does he shut off his feelings ie.Am I right roja?
bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
if that's not possible anymore - you need a very good hobby that you like as much as woman. I like poker and music. Whenever i feel like i have to shut off my emotional volcano - i do one of these... on hour on end... and the whole time - i am not thinking one bit about any girl at all...
and just realize that women are going to be f with you and that "most" pus$y is just pus$y and that most woman can provide you with whatever comfort you seek... and that once it's going bad - you really don't like it anyway (so why are you holding on?)
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
feel not like to run
feel not like to ...
how to shut off completely all the feelings
bukowski_merit said:and just realize that women are going to be f with you and that "most" pus$y is just pus$y and that most woman can provide you with whatever comfort you seek... and that once it's going bad - you really don't like it anyway (so why are you holding on?)
What? What feelings do you want to shut off especifficly? Why?!
The bad ones? Why not try to convert the bad ondes into good ones? That should be your aim IMO.
Your question is vague, and I don't see how it makes sence. It wouldn't benefit you to shut off ALL feelings.
SharinganUser
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FYI, no sane person at this site is going to tell you to shut off your feelings let alone how to do so.
Learn to acknowlege your feelings, not shut them off. An afc missinterprets his "feelings" as love, a DJ knows full well that it's only "attraction."
How to shut them completely whenever you want
SharinganUser said:Why do you want to be a Sociopath?
FYI, no sane person at this site is going to tell you to shut off your feelings let alone how to do so.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.