"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
No Feelings/Strong
- Thread starter roja
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The Master Disaster
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"when you see feel comming, and you stayed away from those feelings"
I mean I think I get your drift, but that is a really poor word choice. You can't really see a feeling... that's what makes it a feeling not a barracuda.
But seriously, are you asking how do you cope with feelings?
[S]alvatore
Master Don Juan
If this is the case, have more than 1 girl going at any one time. By doing this you won't worry about losing 1 of them, because you have several other options.
[S]alvatore said:how does he shut off his feelings ie.Am I right roja?
bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
if that's not possible anymore - you need a very good hobby that you like as much as woman. I like poker and music. Whenever i feel like i have to shut off my emotional volcano - i do one of these... on hour on end... and the whole time - i am not thinking one bit about any girl at all...
and just realize that women are going to be f with you and that "most" pus$y is just pus$y and that most woman can provide you with whatever comfort you seek... and that once it's going bad - you really don't like it anyway (so why are you holding on?)
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
feel not like to run
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how to shut off completely all the feelings
bukowski_merit said:and just realize that women are going to be f with you and that "most" pus$y is just pus$y and that most woman can provide you with whatever comfort you seek... and that once it's going bad - you really don't like it anyway (so why are you holding on?)
What? What feelings do you want to shut off especifficly? Why?!
The bad ones? Why not try to convert the bad ondes into good ones? That should be your aim IMO.
Your question is vague, and I don't see how it makes sence. It wouldn't benefit you to shut off ALL feelings.
SharinganUser
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FYI, no sane person at this site is going to tell you to shut off your feelings let alone how to do so.
Learn to acknowlege your feelings, not shut them off. An afc missinterprets his "feelings" as love, a DJ knows full well that it's only "attraction."
How to shut them completely whenever you want
SharinganUser said:Why do you want to be a Sociopath?
FYI, no sane person at this site is going to tell you to shut off your feelings let alone how to do so.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.