"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
No Feelings/Strong
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
The Master Disaster
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"when you see feel comming, and you stayed away from those feelings"
I mean I think I get your drift, but that is a really poor word choice. You can't really see a feeling... that's what makes it a feeling not a barracuda.
But seriously, are you asking how do you cope with feelings?
[S]alvatore
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If this is the case, have more than 1 girl going at any one time. By doing this you won't worry about losing 1 of them, because you have several other options.
[S]alvatore said:how does he shut off his feelings ie.Am I right roja?
bukowski_merit
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if that's not possible anymore - you need a very good hobby that you like as much as woman. I like poker and music. Whenever i feel like i have to shut off my emotional volcano - i do one of these... on hour on end... and the whole time - i am not thinking one bit about any girl at all...
and just realize that women are going to be f with you and that "most" pus$y is just pus$y and that most woman can provide you with whatever comfort you seek... and that once it's going bad - you really don't like it anyway (so why are you holding on?)
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
feel not like to run
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how to shut off completely all the feelings
bukowski_merit said:and just realize that women are going to be f with you and that "most" pus$y is just pus$y and that most woman can provide you with whatever comfort you seek... and that once it's going bad - you really don't like it anyway (so why are you holding on?)
What? What feelings do you want to shut off especifficly? Why?!
The bad ones? Why not try to convert the bad ondes into good ones? That should be your aim IMO.
Your question is vague, and I don't see how it makes sence. It wouldn't benefit you to shut off ALL feelings.
SharinganUser
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FYI, no sane person at this site is going to tell you to shut off your feelings let alone how to do so.
Learn to acknowlege your feelings, not shut them off. An afc missinterprets his "feelings" as love, a DJ knows full well that it's only "attraction."
How to shut them completely whenever you want
SharinganUser said:Why do you want to be a Sociopath?
FYI, no sane person at this site is going to tell you to shut off your feelings let alone how to do so.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.