"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
No Feelings/Strong
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
The Master Disaster
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"when you see feel comming, and you stayed away from those feelings"
I mean I think I get your drift, but that is a really poor word choice. You can't really see a feeling... that's what makes it a feeling not a barracuda.
But seriously, are you asking how do you cope with feelings?
[S]alvatore
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If this is the case, have more than 1 girl going at any one time. By doing this you won't worry about losing 1 of them, because you have several other options.
[S]alvatore said:how does he shut off his feelings ie.Am I right roja?
bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
if that's not possible anymore - you need a very good hobby that you like as much as woman. I like poker and music. Whenever i feel like i have to shut off my emotional volcano - i do one of these... on hour on end... and the whole time - i am not thinking one bit about any girl at all...
and just realize that women are going to be f with you and that "most" pus$y is just pus$y and that most woman can provide you with whatever comfort you seek... and that once it's going bad - you really don't like it anyway (so why are you holding on?)
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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how to shut off completely all the feelings
bukowski_merit said:and just realize that women are going to be f with you and that "most" pus$y is just pus$y and that most woman can provide you with whatever comfort you seek... and that once it's going bad - you really don't like it anyway (so why are you holding on?)
What? What feelings do you want to shut off especifficly? Why?!
The bad ones? Why not try to convert the bad ondes into good ones? That should be your aim IMO.
Your question is vague, and I don't see how it makes sence. It wouldn't benefit you to shut off ALL feelings.
SharinganUser
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FYI, no sane person at this site is going to tell you to shut off your feelings let alone how to do so.
Learn to acknowlege your feelings, not shut them off. An afc missinterprets his "feelings" as love, a DJ knows full well that it's only "attraction."
How to shut them completely whenever you want
SharinganUser said:Why do you want to be a Sociopath?
FYI, no sane person at this site is going to tell you to shut off your feelings let alone how to do so.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.