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For chronic masturbators a few years of no fap should be done this is my opinion

For the others that do it every couple times a month are fine. Your semen contains zinc and calcium and phosphorus you are losing vital nutrients when you masturbate to much
Here's the kicker. They are depressed because they are lonely, so they jerkoff. Then, after weeks, months, years of no female partners they jerkoff 2, 3, 4 times a day. This becomes a cycle and they are even more depressed. If you ain't fvcking, you need ejaculate once a week. Anything more than moderation is asking for some many issues to arise. prostatitis, urethritis, cuts on the penis, desensitization and of course, different levels of masturbation.
 

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I seriously think, aside from stronger erection quality, all of nofaps “benefits” are placebo. But, that’s not to say that the placebo effects are not beneficial.

For example, a better hard-on is an objective benefit - it’s basically fact. However, where I get lost is the people who claim you “get more attention from women/more women are checking you out, etc.” I 1000000% believe that this is not true; however you are just MORE LIKELY to pickup on the cues you were missing before.

Think about it - you stop whacking off for a month and think “hey these cute girls are noticing me more”...when actually, you’re noticing them more and their actions are the same, really. You’re consciously and subconsciously hungry for sex - it’s wired in your brain, and when you don’t have fapping to get yourself off, your instincts of attraction come to the forefront and you pickup on cues that you either, (a) could not pickup on before because your brain subconsciously knows that it’s “getting off” tonight when you jerk it, and/or (b) those girls always were looking at you and you were to blind to know it.


Placebo or not; it’s a good thing. Not trying to knock it, but I think there’s a lot more to it than “go nofap and suddenly women are into you”. It’s just a ****ing lie - they’ve always been interested or having an eye on you, you were just too cloud-minded to notice until you stopped jerking your willy everyday.
 

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Why is their a distinction with the effects of a "placebo" and healing it makes no sense logically. It has no basis if it does please explain it so we can understand what you mean by "it's just a placebo". It's of my truth that alot of you regurgitate punchlines from things you read that relate to your cognitive biases. If a sugar pill heals someone's ailment, would you just blurt well "it was a sugar pill" who gives a crap what it was it healed the person! And this phenomena has been medically documented thousands of times. A working frame for this is mind over matter and the power of the mind. No fap heals receptors in your body thus healing your nervous system and dopamine receptors. Imagine using a computer and it had its juice/energy drained by another modality, eventually the computer would slow down and in some cases short circuit. It's being fried just like depleting the very thing that gives life is being depleted frying your nervous system/receptors
 

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However, where I get lost is the people who claim you “get more attention from women/more women are checking you out, etc.” I 1000000% believe that this is not true; however you are just MORE LIKELY to pickup on the cues you were missing before.

Think about it - you stop whacking off for a month and think “hey these cute girls are noticing me more”...when actually, you’re noticing them more and their actions are the same, really. You’re consciously and subconsciously hungry for sex - it’s wired in your brain, and when you don’t have fapping to get yourself off, your instincts of attraction come to the forefront and you pickup on cues that you either, (a) could not pickup on before because your brain subconsciously knows that it’s “getting off” tonight when you jerk it, and/or (b) those girls always were looking at you and you were to blind to know it.


Placebo or not; it’s a good thing. Not trying to knock it, but I think there’s a lot more to it than “go nofap and suddenly women are into you”. It’s just a ****ing lie - they’ve always been interested or having an eye on you, you were just too cloud-minded to notice until you stopped jerking your willy everyday.
Yes, some chronic fappers (and especially heavy porn users) have reported "brain fog." And many have reported increased "social anxiety" of sorts. So yes, it seems reasonable that going nofap/noporn could potentially reduce brain fog, and then the added mental clarity could help them notice missed signals from women. Similarly, reduced social anxiety could also get them out of their heads more and notice more signals from women.

That would certainly be a benefit.
 

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No fap baby almost at week 2! Concentration has improved drastically, before when fapping to porn or without I would imagine me thinking all the hot chicks I want to bang or approach, but my brain would short circuit and imagine them rejecting me in various ways and I would get low self esteem and fap to porn. Not anymore today I was imaging banging this hot eastern Europe woman and she was loving it. It was vivid and she was very accepting. Now when I see her I'm going to approach her and make this happen instead of fapping to porn
 

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No fap update number 2. Heading in to week 2 I woke up today with a morning wood, it was at about 80 percent strength. Last night my dreams were about sexing women. I was banging some hot chick it was detailed and in the moment. Before when I fapped twice a day when I dreamed of women they would reject my advances and belittle me and leave with other guys. The dreams transformed to my friends mom hitting on me. We probably would of banged but I woke up
 

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The less you masturbate, the less you want to masturbate, and you flow naturally easily with women, ALL women. You come outta your shell in a sense. The past 2 years, I've REALLY sluffed off masturbating. I may go 4 weeks without then 10 weeks before the next one. I could get laid tonight with a gal I fvcked last November/December, but I'm not that eager to even drive to her. I'm like 50/50 wanting to get laid, just don't want to put in the effort. Next week I may go with her, as well as play tennis. Weather's getting high 50s mid 60s, almost time for me to come out of hibernation. During that 3 month hibernation, I masturbated maybe 5 times. Even when you mess up by mbing, you're still ok, because you're well on your way to natural game. You begin to treat women bad/sh!tty when you're not mbing. I also take Tongkat Ali to raise testosterone. It makes me gluttonous or sh!tty towards women, and they like/love it. I become a Boar (not Bore), and they don't care about my insensitiveness. If they didn't like me at first, they'll come around eventually in the weeks and months to come (after she rifles through several beaus). It's sad. I'll still reject her. Being in my early 40s makes the lust control much either to be sure. You guys in your 20s, 30s, I feel for you, I wanted to bang every damned day then.
 

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It's the opposite for me. The more I do it the hornier I get. (Up to a point, I never over-do it.) When I go no fap, my mind is on things other than women and sex and I find myself too busy with other things to care.

As far as saving sexual fluid, that probably works for a 24 hour period. That is, I wouldn't fap the day of a lay or a date. But it's not like the body is going to overproduce it after several days.
 

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If it's a placebo effect, but still helps you then gp for it!
 

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fAKE nEWS
 

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No its actually not keep believing that though I have advantages you fail to understand
I could say the same thing.

Keep dreaming that fantasy, muchacho.
 
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Depends on your age and physical predisposition as well as other circumstances .

If you go 100% no porn and no fap, first wet dream should happen around 3rd or 4th week - actually it shall happen sooner if you don't watch porn than if you watch it if you don't fantasize about sex as well (your brain will provide you stimuli you refused during sleep => thus the higher probability of wet dream), however if you are in your 30's I'd not count on them too much.
I still get them from time to time and I'm 35. It depends on your physiology.
 

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Going against nature will yield you nothing except perhaps cancer later in life.

Can't fvck a real thing, then you better fap.
 

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-Just in the pub, and a girl (8/10) , there with boyfriend made an effort to move and sit right next to me. 5 min conversation.
Let me tell you something surprising.. Most guys who have hot gf don't masturbate as well. There is no reason for her to be attracted to you just because you don't masturbate, because her bf most likely doing the same thing, lol.
From what I read about no-fap it is mostly placebo. I get IOS from girls even if I ****ed a girl just now or masturbated on some porn.
 

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As far as the arguments of nofap as a placebo are concerned, it has to be kept in mind that all males dont have same genetic makeup, some good in some aspects, some in other, if nofap is not making any difference it might be a possibility that a person's genetic mekeup is quite strong and have taken the hits but after some time with age the shield will be down and vulnerabilities exposed. So as a precaution keeping limit is more providential.
Definitely it is not a placebo as my allergic rhinitis has been cured to a great extent. If my mind has done all the healing then i am certainly an extraordinary human being with mental power at par to angels, but i am an ordinary human being with my fair share of falls and triumphs.
 
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