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As far as the arguments of nofap as a placebo are concerned, it has to be kept in mind that all males dont have same genetic makeup, some good in some aspects, some in other, if nofap is not making any difference it might be a possibility that a person's genetic mekeup is quite strong and have taken the hits but after some time with age the shield will be down and vulnerabilities exposed. So as a precaution keeping limit is more providential.
Definitely it is not a placebo as my allergic rhinitis has been cured to a great extent. If my mind has done all the healing then i am certainly an extraordinary human being with mental power at par to angels, but i am an ordinary human being with my fair share of falls and triumphs.
R u saying that doing no-fap will trigger a genetic reaction within ur DNA ?

Btw ur allergic reaction is caused by allergens, remove allergens and you won't be having any reaction.

Reintroduce allergens and you will be having a reaction.
 

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Placebo effect is a lazy way of thinking and you offered no reason why you think it's a placebo affect. If I take a sugar pill and cure an ailment does it matter if it was a placebo. It reenforces mind over matter
He says it's a placebo because you have no real evidence for the results. No Fap is cope.
 

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Tyson Fury faps all the fookin time. That's why his voice is so raspy sounding like he's smoked a pack of cigarettes every day for 20 years.
 

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Thread resurrection.

In my experience with a 200+ nofap streak it forces you to find satisfaction elsewhere in your life. It pushes you to be a more wholesome man simply by freeing up your time and not constantly drowning your brain with pleasure hormones. You start to see fapping as what it really is, a coping strategy to remain content. It can be overwhelming to completely stop, especially when you've been doing it your entire life. It's a paradigm shift.

You start to relish in that hunger for satisfaction. And in seeking that satisfaction you drive your life forward, slowly discovering that the satisfaction comes from achieving your own goals and pushing your own limits. If you use the energy efficiently it's easy because you make yourself so busy with other endeavors you don't even think about fapping and start seeing it as the waste of time it is. If you don't change your ways nofap will feel like an insurmountable task that only frustrates you. You'll rationalize maintaining the status quo of your life, rather than taking big risks to influence, inspire, learn, grow, teach, etc, because you can't bring yourself to admit you're weak willed.

For all the doubters I always say if you can't go a full month nofap, then you probably have issues and would benefit greatly from it. If you can do so no problem, then the benefits you experience will probably be trivial.
 
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I fapped last night and then before showering this morning.
 

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One month minimal masturbation, ejac probably 4-5 times. Here are experiential results....

-Awake and fully functional between 7 and 9am, even with a hangover.
-Just in the pub, and a girl (8/10) , there with boyfriend made an effort to move and sit right next to me. 5 min conversation.
-10 mins later, guy my age chats me up on behalf of his 45 year old mother. Both compliment my hair and skin. Sh3 basically wants to f*ck me.
++++attention from girls at work. Like, I can invite them for a drink any time and they gonna agree, regardless.
-9-10/10 Hispanic looking girl staring at me. I look away 2 or 3 5imes aND she's still looking after 20 seconds.
-Hair on forearms for the first time ever after 20 years since puberty.
-Thinning head hair re-thickening. This is not the first time this has happened with testosterone retention.
-Many extended conversations with other men, on a level and completely comfortable. Even dominant. Other men are not threatened nor dominant, just engaged.

Next step, edge more and learn to master ejaculatory control.

You can create higher sexual experiences of unity than any manboy whom busts a nut.
 

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Next step, edge more and learn to master ejaculatory control.

You can create higher sexual experiences of unity than any manboy whom busts a nut.
As per The Multi-Orgasmic Man, it's entirely possible to separate orgasm and ejaculation. I'm able to do it with enough practice. Sometimes I'll have 8 full body orgasms, each one more intense than the last. By the 8th one I'm twitching like crazy and so satisfied that I don't care about ejaculating anymore. Although I've found it's too easy to have a retrograde ejaculation (accidentally forcing the ejaculate into your bladder), which can increase the chances of a UTI.

When done properly it's amazing, but it requires constant practice to master and maintain. I don't feel drained afterwards, I actually feel more energized. That kind of fap is done without porn though, it's quite sensual, but it still has all the addictive qualities of fapping imo. Its still the equivalent of rose tinted glasses. Ideally you don't care enough about sex to practice something so trivial on your own(unless you're completely satisfied with your personal life and are doing it to spice up an LTR or something).

On your deathbed you probably won't be wishing you had masturbated and edged more.

While it may seem that sex is important in a relationship, the deeper the relationship the less attention you have to pay to sex because it just comes naturally. Passionate mind blowing sex is a natural byproduct of strong multifaceted attraction.
 

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As per The Multi-Orgasmic Man, it's entirely possible to separate orgasm and ejaculation. I'm able to do it with enough practice. Sometimes I'll have 8 full body orgasms, each one more intense than the last. By the 8th one I'm twitching like crazy and so satisfied that I don't care about ejaculating anymore. Although I've found it's too easy to have a retrograde ejaculation (accidentally forcing the ejaculate into your bladder), which can increase the chances of a UTI.

When done properly it's amazing, but it requires constant practice to master and maintain. I don't feel drained afterwards, I actually feel more energized. That kind of fap is done without porn though, it's quite sensual, but it still has all the addictive qualities of fapping imo. Its still the equivalent of rose tinted glasses. Ideally you don't care enough about sex to practice something so trivial on your own(unless you're completely satisfied with your personal life and are doing it to spice up an LTR or something).

On your deathbed you probably won't be wishing you had masturbated and edged more.

While it may seem that sex is important in a relationship, the deeper the relationship the less attention you have to pay to sex because it just comes naturally. Passionate mind blowing sex is a natural byproduct of strong multifaceted attraction.
Good man!

Dude, there is no comparison to fapping. It’s being the complete experience that high smv females are looking for.

Have you also developed your skill of dirty talk?
 

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He says it's a placebo because you have no real evidence for the results. No Fap is cope.
That makes no sense. People spontaneously remission from cancer without treatment, so there's a lack of evidence?
 

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That makes no sense. People spontaneously remission from cancer without treatment, so there's a lack of evidence?
Srry if you don't get it. It should make sense. Just go ahead and no fap bro. Do yo thing.
 

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Hahahaha thats funny. Did you not figure out that your fapping is actually causing your PE?
America has a porn problem along with men on average last 5-8 minutes. Lol
Your dik is a muscle and if you shorted your gym workout everytime or your cardio. How would your stamina go?
Never had a PE problem, so IDK what to tell you on how to solve yours dude. A dude's penis isn't a muscle, it's made up of cells and a spongy type of tissue which fill up when a dude becomes aroused. The blood fills said cells and tissue, then he becomes erect.

I can tell you, that if a dude ejaculates at least once a week, it does lower his chances of prostate cancer. Medically speaking, there is nothing wrong with a dude masturbating once or twice a day... Medically speaking. The traditional understanding is as long as it is not interfering with your work/social/family life, then it's okay. Some dudes have higher testosterone than others; thus they can been hornier than others.

I will correct you on another issue. It's not only America, it's any country with high speed Internet access which has a porn problem. Porn can serve a purpose, but it should be used in moderation; if at all. Naked pictures of your female friend or thoughts in your head during the act is not considered porn, thus shouldn't have an issue with PE. Some dudes yank on their member too much or mess around with the frenulum area of the penis (most sensitive) and thus they have a problem with control. Actually, it can go either way. One can be too sensitive and ejaculate in a few seconds or less sensitive and last hours.

Hope you enjoyed your medical lesson for today.
 
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Most I managed was two weeks. Ready to burst.

I find going away with the guys helps, as for a few days you don't fap because you're all sharing a room. Couple that with all the women you meet and you're ready to burst again by the time you return.

I think seven days is probably the sweet spot as mentioned upthread. Your testosterone levels peak and that's when you should be reaching for that booty call.
 

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Most I managed was two weeks. Ready to burst.

I find going away with the guys helps, as for a few days you don't fap because you're all sharing a room. Couple that with all the women you meet and you're ready to burst again by the time you return.

I think seven days is probably the sweet spot as mentioned upthread. Your testosterone levels peak and that's when you should be reaching for that booty call.
All dudes need their own place to crash. I was never fond of roommates and dealing with their sh it.
 

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Oh God, with ya there. Unfortunately it's either travel in style on my own - fun in many ways - or share a room with my broke-ass friends lol.

Planning a solo trip from Toronto to Sandusky for this summer, following the coaster belt. Then maybe a trip with a pal to Poland.

This damn virus can do one already.
 
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