Piers Nivens
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Day 12. But got a bj yesterday and ejaculated. Does that break it?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
No Fap Challenge Progress
- Thread starter Mr.SomeoneElse
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Haven't fapped for 2+ weeks now.
I now have a new respect for recovering junkies. I can't tell you how often and urgently my hand wanted to grab my tool - I checked myself a hundred times - and on days when I'm hungover from alcohol, it's 10x as difficult.
I now have a new respect for recovering junkies. I can't tell you how often and urgently my hand wanted to grab my tool - I checked myself a hundred times - and on days when I'm hungover from alcohol, it's 10x as difficult.
matt428carr
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Day 12..hanging in there, but tough!!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Piers Nivens
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Come on guys we can do this! After half a year it will become permanent!
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Day 1.
Jumping on this wagon again..
I will not give up until I kick this fvcking habit!!!!
no fap, no orgasm, no porn!!!
Jumping on this wagon again..
I will not give up until I kick this fvcking habit!!!!
no fap, no orgasm, no porn!!!
Piers Nivens
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narcissist said:
You got this man! Im basically 2 weeks in and I DO NOT get the urges anymore. So fkin happy
Urges are gone by the 3rd week, but I think this is around the time withdrawal symptoms kick in.
Personally, I've been suffering from blurred vision and insomnia (obviously, why would I be posting this so late?).
To all the critics and skeptics of nofap, I say judge the addiction by its withdrawal symptoms. Why would such a 'harmless' activity such as masturbating render such a potent after-effect in its absence? Why would such a 'harmless' activity be so difficult to surrender?
Personally, I've been suffering from blurred vision and insomnia (obviously, why would I be posting this so late?).
To all the critics and skeptics of nofap, I say judge the addiction by its withdrawal symptoms. Why would such a 'harmless' activity such as masturbating render such a potent after-effect in its absence? Why would such a 'harmless' activity be so difficult to surrender?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
blind_one
Master Don Juan
Been here 2 years ago, went for about 35 days. Just ended a long relationship, not fapping till I get some 
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Day 3 baby!!!
I'm going the long haul here. At the VERY LEAST im going 90 days
I'm going the long haul here. At the VERY LEAST im going 90 days
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Got laid last night....
I am super horny and everything after almost 3 weeks of no fapping. Got two girls in 1 night i did sex with the latter. Thank you for this forums... After a month of reading tons of gems, I am finally looking forward for the best days of my life.
I am super horny and everything after almost 3 weeks of no fapping. Got two girls in 1 night i did sex with the latter. Thank you for this forums... After a month of reading tons of gems, I am finally looking forward for the best days of my life.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Day 4
blind_one
Master Don Juan
Remember its just p*ssyDon Pepot said:
still :rockon: Day 3 So far so good
kkbrighton
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Spent years looking at pics for hours edging away. Then moved onto vids. Vids got more and more extreme
Got the chance a few months ago with an actual girl, couldn't get it up. Another chance, same result.
Started to realise that even at home alone couldn't get hard as easy or stay hard even for porn and throughout the day nothing. it really takes some work now to get hard.
But then sex chatting online gets me rock hard.
So does this sound like porn (or even sex chat) induced ed?
Going to stop the faping anyway...
On day 2
Got the chance a few months ago with an actual girl, couldn't get it up. Another chance, same result.
Started to realise that even at home alone couldn't get hard as easy or stay hard even for porn and throughout the day nothing. it really takes some work now to get hard.
But then sex chatting online gets me rock hard.
So does this sound like porn (or even sex chat) induced ed?
Going to stop the faping anyway...
On day 2
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.