Piers Nivens
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Day 12. But got a bj yesterday and ejaculated. Does that break it?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
No Fap Challenge Progress
- Thread starter Mr.SomeoneElse
- Start date
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Haven't fapped for 2+ weeks now.
I now have a new respect for recovering junkies. I can't tell you how often and urgently my hand wanted to grab my tool - I checked myself a hundred times - and on days when I'm hungover from alcohol, it's 10x as difficult.
I now have a new respect for recovering junkies. I can't tell you how often and urgently my hand wanted to grab my tool - I checked myself a hundred times - and on days when I'm hungover from alcohol, it's 10x as difficult.
matt428carr
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Day 12..hanging in there, but tough!!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Piers Nivens
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Come on guys we can do this! After half a year it will become permanent!
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Day 1.
Jumping on this wagon again..
I will not give up until I kick this fvcking habit!!!!
no fap, no orgasm, no porn!!!
Jumping on this wagon again..
I will not give up until I kick this fvcking habit!!!!
no fap, no orgasm, no porn!!!
Piers Nivens
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narcissist said:
You got this man! Im basically 2 weeks in and I DO NOT get the urges anymore. So fkin happy
Urges are gone by the 3rd week, but I think this is around the time withdrawal symptoms kick in.
Personally, I've been suffering from blurred vision and insomnia (obviously, why would I be posting this so late?).
To all the critics and skeptics of nofap, I say judge the addiction by its withdrawal symptoms. Why would such a 'harmless' activity such as masturbating render such a potent after-effect in its absence? Why would such a 'harmless' activity be so difficult to surrender?
Personally, I've been suffering from blurred vision and insomnia (obviously, why would I be posting this so late?).
To all the critics and skeptics of nofap, I say judge the addiction by its withdrawal symptoms. Why would such a 'harmless' activity such as masturbating render such a potent after-effect in its absence? Why would such a 'harmless' activity be so difficult to surrender?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
blind_one
Master Don Juan
Been here 2 years ago, went for about 35 days. Just ended a long relationship, not fapping till I get some 
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Day 3 baby!!!
I'm going the long haul here. At the VERY LEAST im going 90 days
I'm going the long haul here. At the VERY LEAST im going 90 days
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Got laid last night....
I am super horny and everything after almost 3 weeks of no fapping. Got two girls in 1 night i did sex with the latter. Thank you for this forums... After a month of reading tons of gems, I am finally looking forward for the best days of my life.
I am super horny and everything after almost 3 weeks of no fapping. Got two girls in 1 night i did sex with the latter. Thank you for this forums... After a month of reading tons of gems, I am finally looking forward for the best days of my life.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Day 4
blind_one
Master Don Juan
Remember its just p*ssyDon Pepot said:
still :rockon: Day 3 So far so good
kkbrighton
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Spent years looking at pics for hours edging away. Then moved onto vids. Vids got more and more extreme
Got the chance a few months ago with an actual girl, couldn't get it up. Another chance, same result.
Started to realise that even at home alone couldn't get hard as easy or stay hard even for porn and throughout the day nothing. it really takes some work now to get hard.
But then sex chatting online gets me rock hard.
So does this sound like porn (or even sex chat) induced ed?
Going to stop the faping anyway...
On day 2
Got the chance a few months ago with an actual girl, couldn't get it up. Another chance, same result.
Started to realise that even at home alone couldn't get hard as easy or stay hard even for porn and throughout the day nothing. it really takes some work now to get hard.
But then sex chatting online gets me rock hard.
So does this sound like porn (or even sex chat) induced ed?
Going to stop the faping anyway...
On day 2
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.