Piers Nivens
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Day 12. But got a bj yesterday and ejaculated. Does that break it?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
No Fap Challenge Progress
- Thread starter Mr.SomeoneElse
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Haven't fapped for 2+ weeks now.
I now have a new respect for recovering junkies. I can't tell you how often and urgently my hand wanted to grab my tool - I checked myself a hundred times - and on days when I'm hungover from alcohol, it's 10x as difficult.
I now have a new respect for recovering junkies. I can't tell you how often and urgently my hand wanted to grab my tool - I checked myself a hundred times - and on days when I'm hungover from alcohol, it's 10x as difficult.
matt428carr
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Day 12..hanging in there, but tough!!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Piers Nivens
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Come on guys we can do this! After half a year it will become permanent!
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Day 1.
Jumping on this wagon again..
I will not give up until I kick this fvcking habit!!!!
no fap, no orgasm, no porn!!!
Jumping on this wagon again..
I will not give up until I kick this fvcking habit!!!!
no fap, no orgasm, no porn!!!
Piers Nivens
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narcissist said:
You got this man! Im basically 2 weeks in and I DO NOT get the urges anymore. So fkin happy
Urges are gone by the 3rd week, but I think this is around the time withdrawal symptoms kick in.
Personally, I've been suffering from blurred vision and insomnia (obviously, why would I be posting this so late?).
To all the critics and skeptics of nofap, I say judge the addiction by its withdrawal symptoms. Why would such a 'harmless' activity such as masturbating render such a potent after-effect in its absence? Why would such a 'harmless' activity be so difficult to surrender?
Personally, I've been suffering from blurred vision and insomnia (obviously, why would I be posting this so late?).
To all the critics and skeptics of nofap, I say judge the addiction by its withdrawal symptoms. Why would such a 'harmless' activity such as masturbating render such a potent after-effect in its absence? Why would such a 'harmless' activity be so difficult to surrender?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
blind_one
Master Don Juan
Been here 2 years ago, went for about 35 days. Just ended a long relationship, not fapping till I get some 
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Day 3 baby!!!
I'm going the long haul here. At the VERY LEAST im going 90 days
I'm going the long haul here. At the VERY LEAST im going 90 days
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Got laid last night....
I am super horny and everything after almost 3 weeks of no fapping. Got two girls in 1 night i did sex with the latter. Thank you for this forums... After a month of reading tons of gems, I am finally looking forward for the best days of my life.
I am super horny and everything after almost 3 weeks of no fapping. Got two girls in 1 night i did sex with the latter. Thank you for this forums... After a month of reading tons of gems, I am finally looking forward for the best days of my life.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Day 4
blind_one
Master Don Juan
Remember its just p*ssyDon Pepot said:
still :rockon: Day 3 So far so good
kkbrighton
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Spent years looking at pics for hours edging away. Then moved onto vids. Vids got more and more extreme
Got the chance a few months ago with an actual girl, couldn't get it up. Another chance, same result.
Started to realise that even at home alone couldn't get hard as easy or stay hard even for porn and throughout the day nothing. it really takes some work now to get hard.
But then sex chatting online gets me rock hard.
So does this sound like porn (or even sex chat) induced ed?
Going to stop the faping anyway...
On day 2
Got the chance a few months ago with an actual girl, couldn't get it up. Another chance, same result.
Started to realise that even at home alone couldn't get hard as easy or stay hard even for porn and throughout the day nothing. it really takes some work now to get hard.
But then sex chatting online gets me rock hard.
So does this sound like porn (or even sex chat) induced ed?
Going to stop the faping anyway...
On day 2
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.