narcissist
Master Don Juan
back to day 1 lol
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
No Fap Challenge Progress
- Thread starter Mr.SomeoneElse
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Eternal_water
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Day 17 Lol
lolskinnyguy said:Well I don't know what I'm gonna do with myself tonight cause my date just flaked on me.
Maybe I'll stay home and fap to MILF porn.
well I think due to a couple of days of not sleeping and stress that not fapping causes I caved in today and said fvck it. I did however make sure I didnt have a long porn session but rather just a few minutes.
I did it three times. honestly I feel a lot less stressed and I dont feel as mentally polluted as a long porn session causes.
I think if there are no sex prospects in sight whether its due to religious reasons or just coming to terms with what game is and as such still in that "forever alone.jpg" state. I think whacking off one day every 7-10 days is probably a healthy route to go.
I should add whacking off without porn and not for an extended period of time....basically just satisfying the physical need to do so is really the key. or if you do use porn minimize it to just a few minutes and not using any of the extreme stuff so your brain doesnt suffer too many after effects of porn use. so you still get off and feel better and release the tension but dont go full throttle with hour long porn sessions which i think is where the problems rise. that hour long porn sessions is really where the yourbrainonporn.com is getting its information of the bad effects of porn use.
also guys dont forget....STOP FEELING GUILTY. that helps a lot.
lazybuttalented
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Day 1 starts tomorrow for me!
I've done this before but only for a week and even then I could tell a difference in everything.
HERE WE GO!
I've done this before but only for a week and even then I could tell a difference in everything.
HERE WE GO!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
lazybuttalented
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Day 5. Really bad urge when I first woke up. Had to force myself out of bed and worked out. Felt great. So far..
-Increase in energy (A LOT!)
-Confidence rising
-Girls noticing me more
-More aggressive
-Increase in energy (A LOT!)
-Confidence rising
-Girls noticing me more
-More aggressive
LightYagami
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First Update
This is kinda late since I'm on day 7, but yea
I'll try for 21, and see if I wanna go to 42. Wish me luck. This isn't the first time I tried 3 weeks so I'll probably go until 42. Meditation and Pink Floyd helps a lot
This is kinda late since I'm on day 7, but yea
I'll try for 21, and see if I wanna go to 42. Wish me luck. This isn't the first time I tried 3 weeks so I'll probably go until 42. Meditation and Pink Floyd helps a lot
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I think its like day 53 for me. I have been getting laid once or twice a week by my regular (ex gf). I find the nofap is harder when you know sex is going to happen soon. She sent me a pic of her sunbathing and we exchanged some sexual shat via text, she is coming over friday and its nearly impossible to persevere!
No fap is a very interesting experiment for sure, it makes sex better. The one downside I notice is that when I do have sex I can feel myself sink back into a state of less energy and it takes a couple days to get it back. I suppose before nofap I lived in that state all the time.
No fap is a very interesting experiment for sure, it makes sex better. The one downside I notice is that when I do have sex I can feel myself sink back into a state of less energy and it takes a couple days to get it back. I suppose before nofap I lived in that state all the time.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
alright boys.
back to day 1.
I am very serious about this now. I will be documenting each day in this journal until I reach 90 days and how I'm feeling that day. It will go a little something like this:
day: #1
feelings: Fine, No urge to fap at all.
back to day 1.
I am very serious about this now. I will be documenting each day in this journal until I reach 90 days and how I'm feeling that day. It will go a little something like this:
day: #1
feelings: Fine, No urge to fap at all.
Stopped looking at porn since 2014 started
Did no fap for ~2 months --> regressed for ~ 2 months --> 2+ weeks since 'restarted'
There is appreciable/positive difference when 'off', been bit harder for me perhaps bc haven't been having sex at all
Did no fap for ~2 months --> regressed for ~ 2 months --> 2+ weeks since 'restarted'
There is appreciable/positive difference when 'off', been bit harder for me perhaps bc haven't been having sex at all
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
YoungSir4sho
Senior Don Juan
^^^ Yup Unfortunately I fapped monday morning but Im 4 days clean now! And will continue with this challenge.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Day 1........ again.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.