narcissist
Master Don Juan
back to day 1 lol
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
No Fap Challenge Progress
- Thread starter Mr.SomeoneElse
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Eternal_water
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Day 17 Lol
lolskinnyguy said:Well I don't know what I'm gonna do with myself tonight cause my date just flaked on me.
Maybe I'll stay home and fap to MILF porn.
well I think due to a couple of days of not sleeping and stress that not fapping causes I caved in today and said fvck it. I did however make sure I didnt have a long porn session but rather just a few minutes.
I did it three times. honestly I feel a lot less stressed and I dont feel as mentally polluted as a long porn session causes.
I think if there are no sex prospects in sight whether its due to religious reasons or just coming to terms with what game is and as such still in that "forever alone.jpg" state. I think whacking off one day every 7-10 days is probably a healthy route to go.
I should add whacking off without porn and not for an extended period of time....basically just satisfying the physical need to do so is really the key. or if you do use porn minimize it to just a few minutes and not using any of the extreme stuff so your brain doesnt suffer too many after effects of porn use. so you still get off and feel better and release the tension but dont go full throttle with hour long porn sessions which i think is where the problems rise. that hour long porn sessions is really where the yourbrainonporn.com is getting its information of the bad effects of porn use.
also guys dont forget....STOP FEELING GUILTY. that helps a lot.
lazybuttalented
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Day 1 starts tomorrow for me!
I've done this before but only for a week and even then I could tell a difference in everything.
HERE WE GO!
I've done this before but only for a week and even then I could tell a difference in everything.
HERE WE GO!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
lazybuttalented
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Day 5. Really bad urge when I first woke up. Had to force myself out of bed and worked out. Felt great. So far..
-Increase in energy (A LOT!)
-Confidence rising
-Girls noticing me more
-More aggressive
-Increase in energy (A LOT!)
-Confidence rising
-Girls noticing me more
-More aggressive
LightYagami
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First Update
This is kinda late since I'm on day 7, but yea
I'll try for 21, and see if I wanna go to 42. Wish me luck. This isn't the first time I tried 3 weeks so I'll probably go until 42. Meditation and Pink Floyd helps a lot
This is kinda late since I'm on day 7, but yea
I'll try for 21, and see if I wanna go to 42. Wish me luck. This isn't the first time I tried 3 weeks so I'll probably go until 42. Meditation and Pink Floyd helps a lot
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I think its like day 53 for me. I have been getting laid once or twice a week by my regular (ex gf). I find the nofap is harder when you know sex is going to happen soon. She sent me a pic of her sunbathing and we exchanged some sexual shat via text, she is coming over friday and its nearly impossible to persevere!
No fap is a very interesting experiment for sure, it makes sex better. The one downside I notice is that when I do have sex I can feel myself sink back into a state of less energy and it takes a couple days to get it back. I suppose before nofap I lived in that state all the time.
No fap is a very interesting experiment for sure, it makes sex better. The one downside I notice is that when I do have sex I can feel myself sink back into a state of less energy and it takes a couple days to get it back. I suppose before nofap I lived in that state all the time.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
alright boys.
back to day 1.
I am very serious about this now. I will be documenting each day in this journal until I reach 90 days and how I'm feeling that day. It will go a little something like this:
day: #1
feelings: Fine, No urge to fap at all.
back to day 1.
I am very serious about this now. I will be documenting each day in this journal until I reach 90 days and how I'm feeling that day. It will go a little something like this:
day: #1
feelings: Fine, No urge to fap at all.
Stopped looking at porn since 2014 started
Did no fap for ~2 months --> regressed for ~ 2 months --> 2+ weeks since 'restarted'
There is appreciable/positive difference when 'off', been bit harder for me perhaps bc haven't been having sex at all
Did no fap for ~2 months --> regressed for ~ 2 months --> 2+ weeks since 'restarted'
There is appreciable/positive difference when 'off', been bit harder for me perhaps bc haven't been having sex at all
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
YoungSir4sho
Senior Don Juan
^^^ Yup Unfortunately I fapped monday morning but Im 4 days clean now! And will continue with this challenge.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Day 1........ again.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.