"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Day one starts tommorow for me! I have noticed all this jackin it is starting to affect my libido. My goal is 5 months no wacking it!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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As of today I'm around the 3 week mark, started in Solomon's thread and I'm getting more and more success, but about that I'll write in my FR, prolly later today or monday. Stay strong bros.
 

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I was quick to say this was all rubbish. But then I watched the vid and am already on day 3 so I'll try it out and see how it goes.
 

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Ok, back to day 1. Made it 5 days but had a ONS last night but couldn't get off. So i finished it off myself this morning.

I'll start again.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This sh*t works. I've made it to day 6 so far after being a pretty hardcore porn addict (every day for 6 years all videos). If no fap is coupled with meditation it is much easier and you will feel much better about yourself.

I wake up at 6am with energy and keep it throughout the day. I used to have pretty severe anxiety, but my anxiety is nearly gone. Your confidence will improve...I guarantee it. Anyone who discounts no fap has not tried it.
 

Young Juan

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I've been working out all week and don't really have the energy to fap, easy week. I only get the urge when its late at night and I want some pvssy. I'm usually not hard at that time though. If I get hard and horny, I use the energy to expend myself doing 25 pushups and trying to hit 30. I'm usually to tired to anything after that, plus my arms and pecs look swole!
 

Who Dares Win

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For those who passed the 10th day, curious to know if you feel any negative effect like hostility and aggressivity toward situations which would not lead to it before.

Also if your sex drive increase or decrease, I noticed that at some point between the 10th and the 20th day, I get much more energy,less doms after gym but at the same time a hostile attitude and no desire to get involved with people I dont know (not anxiety just that I wanna mind my own business just like while you're in line at the grocery), of course an automatic no bvll**** policy with women which lead to aggressive responce to provocations.
I also find out that I dont mind having confrontations with men much more strong and bigger than me.

Anyone can relate?
 

cablecow15

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bradd80 said:
hey guys, here's some motivation to help you out:




HaHa , im at such an advanced form of perv that those dont even phase me lol
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Young Juan

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bradd80 said:
hey guys, here's some motivation to help you out:



First one reminds me of Joan from Mad Men...and I really want to fvck that red head!

Other two just made me laugh, lol.
 

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SamTheHobit

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bradd80 said:
hey guys, here's some motivation to help you out:



Hahahahahahahahahahaha xD
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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No more keyboard jockeying . Action is the place.

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Mr.SomeoneElse

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Day 7!!
ONE WEEK!

Today was ****ing EASY.
I actually felt ZERO temptations.
I also woke up with an insane amount of energy today.
Also noticed while at the bar I have no issues being sober,
usually in bars I feel uncomfortable or awkward around all these drunk people until i'm 1 - 2 beer in .
But I was perfectly fine in this case.

So far so good, I did some reading and apparently withdrawls start to happen from week 2 - 3.
You feel bad, more aggressive towards people etc..
So hopefully after I get over the withdrawls (they do exist, srs) then everything will be fine.

NOFAP

EDIT:
I also have turned down sex now twice. So that does suck.
But Im hoping when this is over i'll be in an improved state/version of me and be able to pull better quality woman, do good in school, have a more energetic lifestyle than I already have.
 

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Having sex doesn't count.. Its fine to have real sex .. Just no fapping
 

Mr.SomeoneElse

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cola said:
Having sex doesn't count.. Its fine to have real sex .. Just no fapping
I think it depends from person to person on what they count as fair.
Personally for me, i'm going 30 days without sex.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

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