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Mr.SomeoneElse

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Starting off day 11 today.
Had probably the most vivid sex dream of my life, it was ****ing awesome.
I notice I have a lot more persistent game, and I really don't screen what I say as much as I used to.
Whatever I say I back up 100% that it was the right thing and keep going.
It sort of feels like i've done MDMA in that sense + the energy.
So far i'm really liking this.


Day 11.
 

Mr.SomeoneElse

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Just finished off Day 12
was super busy all day so I hardly noticed it.
Pretty excited to have sex after day 30.
Noticed my libido has actually gone down a bit, I have less urges which is a lot easier.
This isn't hard. I dont know why some of you have failed, I'm assuming day 14-21 is going to be hell from what i've read.

Day 12.
 

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I'm 30 hours in and going strong. I've made a commitment to myself, like others here, that the next time I orgasm it's going to be because of sex. I'm very much looking forward to the increase in testosterone and see if there is any change in my mentality and success with women.
 

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JohnChops said:
Well going on day 11 I believe.Just banged a chick and god damn it felt so much better than before.
Really? Ive read that from a few people?
How exactly is it different feeling?
I'm not touching a puss for another 17days yet haha
 

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Damn I'm on day 3 and it's getting hard. The only reason I'm doing this is to see if the extra testosterone will make me more appealing to women...if after like 7-10 days I see no change the **** it i'm back to fapping.
 

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Mr.SomeoneElse said:
Really? Ive read that from a few people?
How exactly is it different feeling?
I'm not touching a puss for another 17days yet haha
I don't know how you do it but grats. It felt euphoric, like just an amazing feeling. Didn't last as long as I used to though but feeling over time all day.
 

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Day 14!!!!

I CAN HONESTLY SAY A SWITCH FLICKED TODAY

Amazing, ive been slowly getting more energy, really vivid dreams, lots about sex, but I hadn't noticed any change in confidence/eye contact or respect. Until this morning.

I woke up with a massive boner, just like every morning ( Penis is looking especially healthy now, for real, it looks amazing, I honestly think I have a super attractive **** now hahaha )
My roommate had friends over, roommate and me are friends but not close, I walked outside of my room to the kitchen to make eggs and it just seemed like all of them shut up and watched me.
They asked me questions, I walked over to the single chair sofa that one of his friends was sitting on and he got up and changed seats. I just looked him in the eyes and stood there for a second and he moved, pretty funny. I never got disrespect from any of them before but now it just seems like I dont even care what they think and they're beneath me in a way? Its ****ed.

Then today, I had to go to the dentist to get a cavity filled, ( ****ty ), On my way walking there I just walked with my head up, eyes gazing into every girl that I passed by and them looking back, I didnt even twitch.
After getting my tooth fixed I had to take the subway to do some business and on the train I remember this HOT girl getting on, and she was wearing a skirt.
I couldn't help but stare at her ass and just think about biting into it, as if I was a lion and she was a helpless gazelle. I felt like she didn't stand a chance. Usually in public my mind is more tame but right now I feel like i'm in the animal kingdom.
I was kicking myself hard because my face was frozen and I couldn't talk properly, but she turned around and saw me staring at her and just cracked one of those proud smirks and I felt absolutely zero shame in being caught looking.

All I can say guys, is I feel Alpha now.
I wasn't a ***** before any of this, but now especially, I feel ****ing comfortable and like a hunter. I feel like when college comes this fall, I feel sorry for all the guys that are in my classes and all the girls, because they arent going to stand a chance against me. Like its going to be too easy, Ive noticed from text game that it takes me less and less time to find the right things to say (clearer thinking on target). I laugh when im texting these chicks now because in my head, im just thinking, there's absolutely no chance they would be able to resist any of what I just said, its that good. I feel like I entered an invincibility cheat in life or something and now its not hard at all.

TLDR; This is ****ing amazing. No lies, not placebo.
 

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went about two weeks , then the other night i had a discouraging night at the club , when to bed .... had a dream ........ so now I guess im starting over at two days now
 

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cablecow15 said:
went about two weeks , then the other night i had a discouraging night at the club , when to bed .... had a dream ........ so now I guess im starting over at two days now
Wet dreams don't count.
I haven't had one yet, but the majority say they don't count
Its your sub-conscious doing it. Up to you I guess.
 

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Will be 2 weeks tomorrow of no fapping or porn. Surprisingly the porn has been the hardest part. Every time i run out of things to do on the computer i feel a really strong desire to watch just one porn video. Weird thing is its like a rush in my head, not my diick. Think im definitely addicted to the dopamine rush i get from porn or something. Really glad I've stopped and proud of myself for resisting.

However, I did have a yet dream around day 7, but im not officially counting it. Though I came im pretty sure it wasn't normal semen but thats based on the smell haha. Also I had no control since i was sleeping and i assume there wasn't any manual stimulation, unless im humping my bed in my sleep.

Haven't noticed anything yet, but i remember the last time i did i went a while without masterbating (granted unintentionally for the most part) things didnt start changing until 3 weeks. By that time just touching a girl got my horny :) Gonna definitely do my best to keep this up for another month or so. Have a big job coming up so hopefully that will keep me busy. On the downside i met get stressed from all the work and feel tempted to beat off or get too horny to focus.

Overall though im really glad i decided to do this
 

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Day 8. I remember doing this before I got morning wood and such and such. But, I'm trying it once again, but I am not getting the visible results. My goal is keeping this til august 20 (30 days).
 

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Mr.SomeoneElse said:
Wet dreams don't count.
I haven't had one yet, but the majority say they don't count
Its your sub-conscious doing it. Up to you I guess.

I feel like the loss of my boys is what brings about my change , so i feel like losing them set me back , so im going to turn back my counter
 

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My friend started this with me at the same time,
He's in australia so he's actually on his 15th day
I talked to him today and asked him so far whats happened
this is what he said

"Memory is noticably better

I've been reading heaps and understand everything the first time I read it

Communication skills are awesome

Words just flow and I'm funnier

Everything in my head is structured and I have a better understanding of things

I know what is and isn't important, not getting caught up by little things that shouldn't affect
me

I see things in a different light

I'm more assertive

Nearly got in a fight with my mate the other night and I wasn't the tinyest bit frightented

Been eating more, and generally healthier food Had KFC yesterday and felt sick afterward, don't even want to have it again for a long time

AND I'm all round happier, life has been really enjoyable lately"

haha, this is so ridiculous
 

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I'm on day 13, something clicked. I feel relaxed and in.control of everything. Girls show interest in me, smiles, talking.etc and words flow out of my.mouth.... no idea wtf is going on but I like it

Wanted to add that my.memory is great and I swear I'm dripping testosterone and girls sense it like.honey to a bee. **** I love if
 

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2 more days and we have ... A MONTH NOW of NO FAP !

Hacks on

+100% all stats

+100% all skills

I can't see anything that can hold me down now, my life is waiting for me to conquer it.
 

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I fapped for the last time today. Sunday, July 29, 2012 at 5:07PM U.S. eastern time. That will the last time I will self orgasm myself. The next time I have an orgasm will be either in a wet dream or during a sexual situtation with the opposite sex in real life.
I'm up for the challenge.

No porn, masturbation and orgasm. I can do. It's going to be tough but I will get past it. I'm not addicted to porn but addicted to what happens in those last few minutes of masturbating. The orgasm feels good! But I feel bad after I do it. It's like I wanted to actually be there in person doing the act. I don't get anything from masturbating but a release. I feel drained of energy the next few days after that orgasm. Once I abstain from porn for a week and I go to masturbate and orgasm. The feeling is astounding. Imagine me releasing when I have sex with a girl and she sees that huge load lol

I'm all for it. Here we go.
 

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bcolon said:
I fapped for the last time today. Sunday, July 29, 2012 at 5:07PM U.S. eastern time. That will the last time I will self orgasm myself. The next time I have an orgasm will be either in a wet dream or during a sexual situtation with the opposite sex in real life.
I'm up for the challenge.

No porn, masturbation and orgasm. I can do. It's going to be tough but I will get past it. I'm not addicted to porn but addicted to what happens in those last few minutes of masturbating. The orgasm feels good! But I feel bad after I do it. It's like I wanted to actually be there in person doing the act. I don't get anything from masturbating but a release. I feel drained of energy the next few days after that orgasm. Once I abstain from porn for a week and I go to masturbate and orgasm. The feeling is astounding. Imagine me releasing when I have sex with a girl and she sees that huge load lol

I'm all for it. Here we go.
Haha dude those were my exact thoughts when I started
Good luck man, first 3-4 days were the hardest for me
Ive heard that withdrawls dont start kicking in until the third week, so i'm sketchy towards those.
Day 15 for me.
 

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Back to day 1 again after 6 days of no fap. I'm not cut out for this hehe.

I'm trying to get some plates spinning after a break-up and i have been going out 3 days in a row. After countless rejections, 3 hangovers, only 2 flaky numbers and pretty much NO success, i woke up depressed today and failed the fap challenge. 4 times..

I've had the worst sunday in 4 years. I'm going to greece for my summer vacation tomorrow and i'm so discouraged now that i'm not even looking forward to going. I feel that every attractive will reject me. End of rant.

I'll try again. Didn't feel any different after 6 days though. Only that it takes extremely little to feel horny.
 
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