Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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no chance?

aschillascanbe

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this is a girl from my class and exams are coming in about a week or so.

a lil whatsapp conversation..

me: hey i wanna take you out for dinner. you free this fri or sat?

her: Hmmm but i need to prepare for my exam :(
her: And i wanna acc my roommate
her: She's in bad mood recently

(1 hour later)

me: what happened? is she all right?
her: wow what's wrong with you? wait till 1 hour+ then reply me
me: paying attention in class :)
her: Nice act, you weren't listening.. you were day dreaming

Is it dead?
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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aschillascanbe said:
this is a girl from my class and exams are coming in about a week or so.

a lil whatsapp conversation..

me: hey i wanna take you out for dinner. you free this fri or sat? JUST F CCUKING STOP ASKING THEM OUT TO DINNER FFS!!!!

her: Hmmm but i need to prepare for my exam :(
her: And i wanna acc my roommate
her: She's in bad mood recently

Is it dead?
She will be sucking some guys **** who didnt ask her to dinner
 

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No counter offer, no interest.
How long had you been chatting to her? Did you do enough to build attraction and rapport?
 

aschillascanbe

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Greasy Pig said:
No counter offer, no interest.
How long had you been chatting to her? Did you do enough to build attraction and rapport?
about 3 days? my good friend in class got she and her roommate to come clubbing with us on monday. i assume things were pretty smooth and that's why i asked her out this quick.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mike32ct

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aschillascanbe said:
about 3 days? my good friend in class got she and her roommate to come clubbing with us on monday. i assume things were pretty smooth and that's why i asked her out this quick.
Very slim odds on this one. I agree with Greasy. With no counteroffer, it doesn't look good.

How did things go in the club? I'm assuming you danced with her.

If this girl kept her back to you the whole time so you could only grind her a$s, she's probably not attracted. A chick avoids face to face when she doesn't want to kiss a guy.
 

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It's "WhatsApp" right so it's free and you've nothing to lose, I'd call her out for being so stroppy and ask her if she's always like this or is it only because she's got an exam...

Either that or any excuse to use the ol' Zelda classic, "Well excuuuuuuse me princess! ;)"
 

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Yet another example of texting killing any chance.

This girl is a controlling shrew, trust me. Next.
 
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