"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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no chance?

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this is a girl from my class and exams are coming in about a week or so.

a lil whatsapp conversation..

me: hey i wanna take you out for dinner. you free this fri or sat?

her: Hmmm but i need to prepare for my exam :(
her: And i wanna acc my roommate
her: She's in bad mood recently

(1 hour later)

me: what happened? is she all right?
her: wow what's wrong with you? wait till 1 hour+ then reply me
me: paying attention in class :)
her: Nice act, you weren't listening.. you were day dreaming

Is it dead?
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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aschillascanbe said:
this is a girl from my class and exams are coming in about a week or so.

a lil whatsapp conversation..

me: hey i wanna take you out for dinner. you free this fri or sat? JUST F CCUKING STOP ASKING THEM OUT TO DINNER FFS!!!!

her: Hmmm but i need to prepare for my exam :(
her: And i wanna acc my roommate
her: She's in bad mood recently

Is it dead?
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She will be sucking some guys **** who didnt ask her to dinner
 
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No counter offer, no interest.
How long had you been chatting to her? Did you do enough to build attraction and rapport?
 
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Greasy Pig said:
No counter offer, no interest.
How long had you been chatting to her? Did you do enough to build attraction and rapport?
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about 3 days? my good friend in class got she and her roommate to come clubbing with us on monday. i assume things were pretty smooth and that's why i asked her out this quick.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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aschillascanbe said:
about 3 days? my good friend in class got she and her roommate to come clubbing with us on monday. i assume things were pretty smooth and that's why i asked her out this quick.
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Very slim odds on this one. I agree with Greasy. With no counteroffer, it doesn't look good.

How did things go in the club? I'm assuming you danced with her.

If this girl kept her back to you the whole time so you could only grind her a$s, she's probably not attracted. A chick avoids face to face when she doesn't want to kiss a guy.
 
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It's "WhatsApp" right so it's free and you've nothing to lose, I'd call her out for being so stroppy and ask her if she's always like this or is it only because she's got an exam...

Either that or any excuse to use the ol' Zelda classic, "Well excuuuuuuse me princess! ;)"
 
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Yet another example of texting killing any chance.

This girl is a controlling shrew, trust me. Next.
 
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