"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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no chance?

aschillascanbe

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this is a girl from my class and exams are coming in about a week or so.

a lil whatsapp conversation..

me: hey i wanna take you out for dinner. you free this fri or sat?

her: Hmmm but i need to prepare for my exam :(
her: And i wanna acc my roommate
her: She's in bad mood recently

(1 hour later)

me: what happened? is she all right?
her: wow what's wrong with you? wait till 1 hour+ then reply me
me: paying attention in class :)
her: Nice act, you weren't listening.. you were day dreaming

Is it dead?
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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aschillascanbe said:
this is a girl from my class and exams are coming in about a week or so.

a lil whatsapp conversation..

me: hey i wanna take you out for dinner. you free this fri or sat? JUST F CCUKING STOP ASKING THEM OUT TO DINNER FFS!!!!

her: Hmmm but i need to prepare for my exam :(
her: And i wanna acc my roommate
her: She's in bad mood recently

Is it dead?
She will be sucking some guys **** who didnt ask her to dinner
 

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No counter offer, no interest.
How long had you been chatting to her? Did you do enough to build attraction and rapport?
 

aschillascanbe

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Greasy Pig said:
No counter offer, no interest.
How long had you been chatting to her? Did you do enough to build attraction and rapport?
about 3 days? my good friend in class got she and her roommate to come clubbing with us on monday. i assume things were pretty smooth and that's why i asked her out this quick.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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aschillascanbe said:
about 3 days? my good friend in class got she and her roommate to come clubbing with us on monday. i assume things were pretty smooth and that's why i asked her out this quick.
Very slim odds on this one. I agree with Greasy. With no counteroffer, it doesn't look good.

How did things go in the club? I'm assuming you danced with her.

If this girl kept her back to you the whole time so you could only grind her a$s, she's probably not attracted. A chick avoids face to face when she doesn't want to kiss a guy.
 

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It's "WhatsApp" right so it's free and you've nothing to lose, I'd call her out for being so stroppy and ask her if she's always like this or is it only because she's got an exam...

Either that or any excuse to use the ol' Zelda classic, "Well excuuuuuuse me princess! ;)"
 

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Yet another example of texting killing any chance.

This girl is a controlling shrew, trust me. Next.
 
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